Kukho abantu abonakala bengenakudla. Sibagqala kwaye sikholwe ukuba bazalwa njengaleyo, babenenhlanhla nje. Nangona kunjalo, eqinisweni, ukuzinza kwengqondo ayikho into ezalwe ngumntu.
Yintoni ukuzinza kwengqondo?
Ixesha lentuthuko yengqondo yomntu ngokwengqondo ngokwayo lithetha ukukwazi ukugcina ukusebenza kakuhle kweengqondo kwiimeko eziguqukayo, phantsi koxinzelelo. Le propati yobuntu ayidluliswanga ngokomzimba, kodwa ikhula kunye nokubunjwa kobuntu.
Ukuzinza kwengqondo kunye neemeko kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwenkqubo yentsholongwane (engenangqondo), kumava obomi bomntu, kwizakhono, kwinqanaba loqeqesho loqeqesho, ukukwazi ukuziphatha koluntu, uhlobo lomsebenzi, njl. Oko kukuthi, sinokufingqa ukuba enye (mhlawumbi, isigqibo) into yokuzalwa. Olu hlobo lomsebenzi wesantya. Kodwa yonke into ixhomekeke kuthi. Emva koko, umntu oye wafunda nokuphumelela ingxaki engaphezu kweyodwa uya kuba ozinzile ngakumbi kunalowo wakhulela kwiimeko "zokunqongophala". Kuyafana nohlangothi oluphambeneyo lweengqekembe: ukuba kukho ubunzima obuninzi ebomini bomntu, iimbilini zakhe zitshukunyiswa, kwaye uyayiphendula ngokucacileyo nayiphi na inkcukacha.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuzinza kwengqondo akuqinisekisi ukuzinza kuyo yonke into ehlabathini. Oku akuzinzi ukuzinza, ukuzinza kwenkqubo ye-nervous, okuyi-flexibility. Uphawu oluphambili lokumelana nokunyamezela kwengqondo kukuhamba kwe-psyche kwishintsho ukusuka komnye umsebenzi ukuya kwenye.
Indlela yokwandisa ukuzinza kwengqondo?
Ukuba asikwazi ukutshintsha uhlobo lomsebenzi weentlanzi, ngoko sinokuchaphazela yonke into. Asikwazi ukuguqula ihlabathi, sitshintsha isimo sengqondo kwizinto ezenzekayo.
Ngoko ke, siya kuqalisa ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kwengqondo ukusuka kwincinci kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, wahlaselwa, uziva uhlazo, umsindo, ukuthotywa, njl njl Awukwazi ukutshintsha into eyenzekayo, kodwa unokutshintsha indlela ophendule ngayo, eqinisweni, ephazamisayo. Nceda uqaphele: awucatshulwa rhoqo xa inja igubuleka. Unokwenza njalo ngokuhlambalaza. Mkhuphe ngaphandle kwentloko yakho.
Ukwandisa ukuzinza kwengqondo, kuyimfuneko, okokuqala, ukudala izimo ezintle zokuphila, ukwenzela ukuba ungagxothwanga nto kwaye unyawo olulinganayo. Ukuba uhamba ngokukhawuleza kwendalo (kwaye luhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi weentlanzi, akukho nto enokuyenza), umntu makakhe ukwakha ubomi bakhe ukuze
Okwesibini, kuphumla kwinkqubo yesantya. Ikunceda ukuhlala ngaphandle komzi, kwindalo. Ukuba inkqubo yakho yeentlanzi iphumlile, iya kuba yomelele ngakumbi ebusweni bexinzelelo.
Okwesithathu, ukuba uxinzelelo lubangelwa ukuphikisana rhoqo kweminqweno (imfuneko) kunye nemigaqo, kufuneka umntu ahlaziye imigaqo ukuze anelise iminqweno yabo, okanye imfuno abaphikisana nemigaqo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukwenza into esemsebenzini ephazamisayo ukuziphatha kwakho, cinga ngokutshintsha uhlobo lomsebenzi.