Iingcali zisesigabeni seengqondo zenze ukuba ukwesaba ukuthetha koluntu ngenye yezona zinto zinamandla kwaye ziqhelekileyo. Abantu abayikwesaba kakhulu ukufa njengomcimbi. Ngendlela yokunqoba kwaye nokuba ungayikhupha uloyiko lwesiganeko, siza kuthetha namhlanje ngeenkcukacha ezingakumbi.
Megalomania
Kukho uluvo lokuba abantu abanoyiko bendawo bayakhuseleka kwaye banokuzithemba. Enyanisweni, le yiphutha elikhulu. Imeko, masithi nje, yinto echasene nayo. Bavalelwa yi " megalomania ".
Inyaniso kukuba umntu akayikwesaba loo ndawo ngokwayo njengento ebonakalayo, kuya kuba yinto engafanelekiyo. Abantu bayesaba isihlwele, ezinye iimbono zabo ngabanye. Ngokukhawuleza baya kucinga kakubi, baya kuxoxa, bahlekise? Kuthekani ukuba abayithandi i-hairstyle? Okanye ngaba baya kubona ukuba ndinemiilenze enamandla? Yonke le mibuzo ifika engqondweni ngenxa yeemvakalelo ezinamandla ngomntu wakhe. "Kwenzeka ntoni, emva koko, ndiphelele, ndigqibekile, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ndikugwebe, ngcola ..."
Ukunyamekela kwesihloko
Kutheni umntu ehamba kwisigaba? Ungabandakanyi imiboniso yefashoni kunye neenqambi ezahlukeneyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu baphuma kubantu ukuze babelane ngolwazi nabo.
Kuba isithethi kufuneka kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba "zibonise" ukuthumela into ebalulekileyo kwabanye. Ukuba isithethi sibhekisela kulowo athethayo, unokufumana umdla. Ukuba uyaphumelela ekwenzeni umdla, yena ngokwakhe uya kubandakanyeka kwisihloko senkulumo yakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba unokubonisa izakhono zakhe zokuthetha koluntu kwabanye . Olu hlobo luya kubakhokelela ekubeni umntu uya kuthathwa yintetho kwaye akuyi kuba nexesha loloyiko. Ingaba kunjalo nje ngaphambi kokuphuma kancinci ngamadolo.