Kutheni ubomi bubungenakulungiswa? Iinyawo zomntu "ezivela ezindlebeni," iindwangu zegolide zendalo, indoda yowolugar kunye nokuthengwa eMilan, kunye nomnye umfanekiso webhedi ye-teddy, igumbi laseKhrushchev kunye nokuthengwa kwiimakethe eziseduze-yintoni ukungabi nabulungisa okungaqhelekanga?
Indlela yokujongana nokungabi nabulungisa?
Xa kuvela umbuzo, indlela yokujongana nokungabi nabulungisa, kufuneka uqale unqume ukuba ngaba uphathwa kakubi okanye ngaba zonke izigwenxa zakho zenziwe?
Ukwenza oku, ziphendule kwimibandela emininzi eya kukukunceda uqonde ukuba kutheni ubomi bungafanelekanga. Ngaba kungenxa yokuba uhlala nabantu abanobuhlungu abalungele nantoni na ngenxa yenzuzo, okanye ngenxa yokuba bona baqhubekile kwi-swamp.
- Uchaza njani ubulungisa nokungabi nabulungisa? Idatha eyahlukileyo yokuqala (umntu wazalwa kwintsapho ecebileyo, kwaye omnye umntu waba nabazali ababengamahlwempu), ukungqamana kwamhlanje kwiimeko zakho zentlalo kunye nomntu owayekade naye esikolweni, intloko ihlala iphule umsindo wakho kuwe.
- Ukuba ucinga ukuba ubomi ukususela ekuqaleni kukuphathe kakubi kwaye ngoko awukwazi ukufezekisa oko abahlobo bakho bafezekisileyo, zibuze, Yintoni eyakukuthintela ukwenza loo nto? Kuphela ukuba kungabikho kwemali yokuqalisa ngokuphumelelayo - awukwazi ukungena eyunivesiti ehloniphekileyo, akukho mntu unokukunika imali mboleko ukuvula ishishini lakho, njl.
- Uphendule ukuba ukuba unemali, ubuya kufezekisa yonke into (endaweni yemali ungatshintsha nayiphi na enye i-excuse-time, communication)? Kwaye ekubeni unqatshelwe le nto, ngoko awukwazi ukuphumeza nantoni na?
- Ingaba ucinga ukuba unyanzelekile ukuzaliseka kwenkqubo yobomi: ukugqiba iyunivesithi - ukuya emsebenzini - ukutshata-ukuzala abantwana?
- Wenza nje ukuba ulinde ixesha elihle, uzithembisa ukuba ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha ngokuphawulekayo?
- Nonke uzama ukwenza "kwi-5+", kwaye ukuba uyaphawula nayiphi na into engenakwenzeka nangomsebenzi wesikolo, ngaba oku kukuphazamisa unaphakade?
- Musa ukuzibekela iinjongo zexesha elide, ukhetha ukuhlala olunye usuku?
Ukuba uphendule ngokuqinisekileyo kwimibandela emi-2 okanye ngaphezulu, ngoko unokuvuyiswa - ubomi kunye nawe buhle. Kwaye kwimeko enokungalunganga umele uxanduva, ubuqili bakho nokungafuni ukusebenza kanzima. Ixesha lokuba uqonde ukuba iWizard kwi-helicopter eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ayiyi kuhamba, kwaye kufuneka siqhubekele ukufezekisa into ebomini. Yeka usebenze endleleni ende eyalelwe ngumntu, khetha indlela yakho. Ukushiya zonke izizathu, asiyiyo ingqiqo, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ezininzi izinto ezenzekayo kuthi, sinoxanduva.
Indlela yokuphendula ukungabi nabulungisa emsebenzini?
Ukuba ukuhlambalaza ebomini kwakhiwa nguwe, ngoko kuyacaca ukuba le ndlela yokucinga kufuneka ilahlwe. Kuthekani ukuba uthe wabuya uvakalelwa kukuba unobulungisa? Emva koko, awukwazi ukusoloko ubeka ityala lokungaphumeleli, njengoko uzama ukubonisa. Ukuba oko kwakuyinyaniso, akukho mntu unokukugcina emsebenzini.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuzikhusela ekungabikho kokungabikho kokusesikweni: unokumelana nomgwenxa (mhlawumbi okanye ukubandakanyeka kwamanyano), ukubuyiswa kokubambisana komthetho (ukulindela ukuba omnye umntu azenzele) okanye ukuthobeka ngokungekho sikweni, oku kuthetha ukuba akukho nantoni na isenzo esenzelwe . Khetha indlela yokumelana nayo, kodwa makhe sicinge ngendlela onokulwa ngayo nomphathi ongekho sikweni.
- Indlela elula neyona ndlela elula yokulwa nesimo sengqondo esingalunganga solawulo kukuhlawula. Ngaba awuboni kuwe amandla kunye nomnqweno wokubonakalisa nayiphi na into kumntu? Mfumana enye
umsebenzi, apho uya kuxabiswa khona. - Iimfanelo zakho zibhekiswe kwinduna entsha, ukufumana indumiso kunye neebhonasi, kwaye awufumani imvumba etafileni yenkosi? Yeka ukuvelisa iingcamango zakho phambi kokhokeli, ngeziphakamiso ezithandekayo ziye eziphezulu. Ewe, mhlawumbi awuyi kusebenza kakubi nomphathi wakho, kodwa wayenomdla kuwe?
- Ngaba uzama ukwesatshiswa ngabasebenzi kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwakhona kwakhona, ukunyanzelisa ukuba ungenzi umsebenzi wakho? Funda iNkqubo yeMisebenzi kwaye ungesabi, ukugxotha umqeshwa kula manqaku akulula.