I-psychology enempilo yosuku ngalunye ijolise ukuthatha umntu ngaphandle koxinzelelo oluqhelekileyo kwaye ifundise ukuba baphathe ubomi ngokulula, ingabandakanyi kwiingxaki, ilahleke kunye nokuhluleka, kodwa kwizinto ezintle kakhulu. Esi simo sengqondo sikuvumela ukuba uhlale ujabule kwaye usebenze ngakumbi kuzo zonke iindawo.
Ingqondo yengqondo
Umgaqo osisiseko omele ufundwe kwaye uqhutyelwe ubonakaliswe nakwiyeliso elidala laseRussia "akukho ncinci ngaphandle kokulungileyo."
Kwimeko nayiphi na ingxaki, engalunganga, engavumelekanga, zama ukufumana ipros - ngakumbi, bhetele. Ekuqaleni kuya kuba nzima kakhulu, kodwa ukuba uyayenza oku kungaphantsi kweentsuku ezili-15, uza kuhlakulela umkhwa, kwaye awuyi kuyenza nayiphi na inzame ngokubukela imeko, uza kufumana ngokuthe ngqo iindawo ezilungileyo kuyo.
Nangona kungekho zihlanganisi ezicacileyo, zihlala zingabonakali. Khawucinge nje imeko - uya kusebenza, kodwa wanciphisa endleleni endleleni, kwaye uya ekhaya ukutshintsha iingubo zakho, ukucaphukisa ukuba kufuneka ufike emva kwexesha. Kwaye kuthiwani xa ufumanisa ukuba umntu owela indlela apho kwakufuneka uwele khona, ukuba kungekudala, washaywa yimoto? Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kugqiba ukuba ikusasa ngokwayo likuthathele kule siganeko esibi.
Okomnye, umzekelo, uye waziva ngokuphindaphindiweyo malunga nendlela abagibeli abaye bahamba ngayo emva kwendiza, babenomsindo ngokukrakra ngexesha elifanayo - kwaye kwavela ukuba i-flight, engayikwazi ukuyilawula, yaphazamiseka, kwaye esi siganeko sabancedisa ukuba basinde. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akusoloko kunzima ukuxhalabisa ngokucacileyo kuya kuhamba kunye-kodwa kukulungele ukucinga ukuba yonke into ebomini yakho ayifumanekanga ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ingqondo yeenguqu ezintle zihlala kwimbono yokuba ubomi bethu bunjengoko sibona, kwaye ukuba akukho nto ikwazi ukutshintsha imeko, ngamanye amaxesha kunokwanele ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo.
I-psychology ezintle: iincwadi
Kuzo naziphi na izixhobo zokugcina iincwadi unokufumana lula ukushicilelwa kunye neengqungquthela zeencwadi ezizinikezela abafundi babo kwiimfihlelo zengqondo efanelekileyo. Phakathi kwabo ungabhala:
- Mnu. Seligman "I-Psychology Entsha Engcono".
- E. Mathews "Phila lula! Indlela yokuzifumana kunye nomsebenzi wakho. "
- UJorge Bukai "Inkolelo yenkosikazikazi."
Ukufunda iincwadi ezinjalo esikhundleni seenqwelo-moya okanye iindibano zothando kwi-train, indiza kunye naliphi na ukuzonwabisa, uza kuba negalelo ekutshintsheni okulungileyo kwi- worldview yakho.