Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo umntu wayezama ukufunda ngaye kunye nabantu abakujikelezile. Ngokufika kwabantu, siye safunda ukuqaphela iimpawu ezimbi kunye neempembelelo zomntu. Akunabo abantu abalungileyo, nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu banokuba neempawu ezintle, ngelixa abanye bengenakho.
Iimpawu zobungqina obuhle, uluhlu lwezinto ezingenasiphelo, lunokubalwa kunye nokuphathwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ezi ziimpawu ezintle zeempawu, kunye nemimiselo yemfundo, umonde nokunyamezela, ukukwazi ukuhlala kuluntu kunye nentlalontle kunye nabanye abaninzi. Iimpawu ezintle zokuziphatha zichanekileyo ezi mfanelo ezivumela umntu ukuba angahlali kuphela kuluntu, kodwa ukuthobela imithetho yakhe kunye nokuphakamisa ngokusemthethweni amalungu akhe onke.
Ziziphi izici ezintle ezivela kuyo?
Iimpawu ezintle zezenzo nezenzo esizenzayo, kwindawo yokuqala, kuxhomekeke kwisimo sengqondo esinalo kunye nesimo salo. Into elandelayo echaphazela ukubunjwa kwezi mpawu kunye neempawu kuthi kuthi sikhuliswe kunye neenxa zonke. Abantu abadala banikela umzekelo wabo wokuziphatha kunye nezenzo zabo rhoqo, bafake i-worldview yabo kunye neempawu ebomini. Into ebonwa kakhulu ebomini ngabazali bakho ngokuqinisekileyo baya kukuxabisa. Kungonwabile kwaye kuvuyiswe, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ubunzulu kunye noxanduva, apho kuzo zombini iziganeko ziimpawu ezilungileyo zobuntu bomntu.
Isimo sengqondo kunye nobomi kubalulekile. Oku kusenza sibe ngokoqobo, oko kukuthi, umgangatho wobomi bethu, nokuba siyanelisekile, kwaye ukubunjwa nokuqhubela phambili kwimiba emihle kuxhomekeke. Ukongezelela, iingqondo zikazwelonke zelizwe, izithethe, zineempembelelo ezithile ebusweni beli okanye lolo hlobo lwesimo esifanelekileyo. Njengabantu baseSlavic, umzekelo, isici esamkelekileyo esilungileyo ngokwembali esidlulileyo kunye nokuzinikela, okungaqinisekanga nakwamanye amazwe.
Uluhlu lwezinto ezilungileyo
Iimpawu ezintle zomntu wakho zingalinganiselwa kumashumi, ukuba kungengamakhulu amabini. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuqokelela zonke ezi mpawu kumntu oyedwa. Ngaphezu koko, ezinye zazo azihambelani ngokupheleleyo. Iimpawu ezintle zomntu nendodakazi inokuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Ukuba kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba umntu abe namandla kwaye anqwenele ngamandla, kuyona inqwenelekayo ukuba ibhinqa libe neempawu zobuntu kunye nokuzincama.
Kubantu, isibindi, ukunyaniseka, uxanduva, ubulumko, ukuzimisela. Indoda ethembekileyo isoloko igcina ilizwi layo, unokuthembela kuyo nayiphi na imeko, uhlala unceda ukuxazulula nayiphi na ingxaki. Kodwa ukuba ibhinqa ibaluleke ngakumbi zizinto ezintle zobuntu zobunjani, ububele, ububele, ukunyamezela, ukunyamekela, ukunyamekela. Umfazi wangempela, okokuqala,
Kuba nayiphi na umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yindoda okanye ibhinqa, intombazana okanye umntu osemdala, kukho uluhlu lweempawu ezintle ezimele zithinteke ngamnye kuthi. Kuvulekileyo kunye nokunyaniseka, ukungabi nabugovu novuko, ukupha nokuzimisela ukunceda, ukunyaniseka nokuzinikela, inceba nokubulela. Kubalulekile kwaye kuya kuba noxanduva kunye nokuthembeka, ukunyaniseka nokuzinikezela, isibindi nesibindi, ukunyamezela kunye nomonde, nabanye abaninzi.
Ngamnye wethu unokuhlakulela ezi mpawu zibalulekileyo. Kwaye umntu ohlala kunabo bonke uhlala ehambelekileyo, uvakaliswa kuye, uyonwabile kwaye uyaphumelela ebomini.