Indlela yokulungisa umfundisi?

Abantu abaninzi, xa beza ecaweni, balahlekile, kuba abazi ukuba baphathise njani ababingeleli. Ngenxa yezizathu ezinjalo, akufanele ulahle uhambo olucetywayo ukuya kwetempile kaThixo, nangona i-etiquette ayiqhelanga. Ababingeleli bangabantu abalula kwaye bahluke kulo lonke ulwazini kunye nolwazi lwelizwi likaThixo kwaye benza njengesithuthi phakathi kwehlabathi kunye nesezulwini. Ukuba, ngokungazi, umntu uphendukela kumbingeleli njengasehlabathini, oku akuyi kuba sisono sokufa , ubaba ohlakaniphileyo novavayo uya kuhlala echanekileyo kwaye axelele indlela yokuhambela kakuhle umcebisi ngokomoya. Ngexesha lokutshutshiswa kwamabandla kunye nabafundisi, kwakunokwenzeka ukujongana nombingeleli ngamagama kunye nokuthi, kodwa namhlanje, xa unqulo lufumene inkululeko kunye nentlonipho, ababingeleli baphathwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ngokubhekiselele kwiinkonzo zecawa.

Ngendlela eyiyo ukuthetha ngumbingeleli ngokuvuma kwisonto?

Ukuza ecaweni ukuvuma, kwiholide okanye nje ukuzolalisa umphefumlo, sicela iintsikelelo kunye nosindiso - ngesicelo esinjalo kwaye kuyafaneleka ukuphendukela kumfundisi wecawa kumntu wombingeleli. Ukusondela kuyo, kufuneka ugcine umgama wakho, phinda iintende zakho phezulu ukuya kwelinye, ukuze isundu esisekhohlo sisezantsi, sitshintshe intloko yakho, ibonise ukuthobeka nokuthobela. Incoko iqalisa ngamagama-siyabonga; kelela, utata okanye usikelele uyise. Emva kokuba umbingeleli uya kumisela umfundisi ngomnqamlezo (umnqamlezo) ngamagama athi "uThixo uya kusikelela" Udinga ukubanga isandla esabhaptiziwe. Abanye abantu bahlaziswa yinkqubo yokumanga, kodwa khumbula ukuba awukhanga umbingeleli, kodwa isandla sikaKristu, apho izipikili zagonywa ngexesha lokubethela. Ukukhothama, ukuma phambi kombingeleli akuvunyelwanga kuyakuqwalaselwa ngetoni ephosakeleyo, kwaye akufuneki ukuba uhlale phantsi ngelixa ungafiki.

Omnye umele akhumbule ukuba kuyisiko ukujongana nombingeleli "Wena", nokuba ulwaziyo luhlala iminyaka. Abafazi boomama (oomama) phambi kweendawo zonqulo bayayithobela le mfuneko.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuziphatha komntu ngexesha lokuvuma okanye ingxoxo eqhelekileyo nombingeleli kwiindonga zetempile. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukulawulwa kwemizobo yakho, ukubukeka, ubuso obusweni , ukuvuma ukuthetha nokuthetha. Umsebenzi wakho kukuqhuba ingxoxo esicacileyo, ungasebenzisi amagama angcolileyo, ahlambalazayo kunye namazwi angenayo kwingxoxo - oku kwamkelekanga kwindawo yokuhlala kaThixo. Musa ukuthatha i-cheeky ne-vulgar postures kunye ne-gesticulate ngokungadingekile, thintela umbingeleli ngentando.