Ukuthetha ngeengqondo, abantu bahlala babelana ngombono weemvakalelo ezibonakalayo ezivela entloko yethu. Le ncwadi yenye yezinto ezimbalwa ezivumela ukuba uvule amehlo akho kwizinto ezincinci ezichaphazelekayo kwiingqondo zethu - ukuvakalelwa kwenyama.
Kubonakala ukuba iifowns ezifana 'nosuku olulukhuni', "isazela esicocekileyo" okanye "ukufudumala ngokufudumele" kubonakalisa ngokwenene indlela esizibona ngayo imizimba. Ukuhamba ecaleni kwentlabathi kusenza sibe mncinci kunokuhamba ngekhonkrithi nzima, kunye nokuthatha indebe efudumele yekhofi kunye ne-vanilla iyaphucula isimo sethu sengqondo size sivumele ukuba sinyaniseke kwabanye.
Le ncwadi iqwalasela ezi zinto zilandelayo zempembelelo kwizengqondo:
- Imiba yeqondo lokushisa
- Impembelelo ye-invoyisi
- Impembelelo yombala, izahluko ezahlukileyo zigqatswa ngombala obomvu-obomvu
- Impembelelo yomgama kunye nommandla we "umda wengqondo" kwisimo sengqondo somntu
- Impembelelo yobukhulu bomntu kwindawo yakhe
- Ukungcola nokucoceka
- Impembelelo yongcamango kunye nokuvumba kumntu womntu
- Impembelelo yezinye izifaniso kunye nokusetyenziswa kwazo
Nangona iincwadi zichaza ngezinye iinkcukacha into efanayo kumaphepha amaninzi, iqulethe inyaniso eninzi kwaye inokubonakala kakuhle ngokubaluleka kwayo. Into eyona nto kukuba ilahlekelwe yinto yokuvakalelwa kwezandi, kwimbono yam, enye yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekuthonyeni umntu.