Abameli bobulili obufanelekileyo bahlala befuna ukufumana izizathu ezahlukileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungagqiba ngexesha, unako ukucima kwisiseko sokudandatheka kweentombi. Oku akusiyo nje into embi, ukungabikho komnqweno wobomi, ukuziva ungonwabi ixesha elide. Kwezinye iimeko, unokukwazi ukujamelana nawe, kwabanye, kuphela ugqirha uya kunceda.
Ukuxinezeleka kwabasetyhini kubangela
Ukuba intombazana ixinezelekile, oko kusoloko kunesizathu. Ezona ziqhelekileyo zilandelayo:
- Olunye ukuhluleka ebomini bakhe bomntu, iingxaki kwibudlelwane.
- Ingxaki ezininzi ngemali, ukusebenza.
- Ukungabi nesekelo lobuhlobo.
- Ukungahambisani neminqweno yakhe, izakhiwo.
Ukongezelela, asinakukwazi ukukhankanya ukuxinezeleka kwangemva kokubeleka kwabasetyhini, kuba kwenzeka kubomi malunga nawo onke amalungu ezesini ezifanelekileyo. Imfuneko yokushiya ngokupheleleyo inkqubo eqhelekileyo yobomi kwaye izinikezele umntwana isoloko nzima ukunyamezela nakwabo baphupha ngoomama.
Ibhinqa liphuma njani ekudandathekeni?
Umbuzo wendlela yokufumana intombazana ekudandathekeni kuyinkimbinkimbi. Zama le nyathelo elula, ukuba ungeyingozi enkulu, kodwa iqondo elilula, ngokuqinisekileyo liya kunceda:
- Zama ukusombulula ingxaki ekukukhathazayo, okanye ubeke ingqalelo kuyo.
- Imihla ngemihla ziquka kwimithombo yokutya yehommoni yolonwabo: ubhanana, ushokoledi, i-citrus, nuts.
- Thatha ibhola lokuphumla.
- Thenga into entsha okanye utshintshe ukubonakala kwakho.
- Yiya kwimidlalo - oku kuyisona esingcono kakhulu sesimo sengqondo.
- Ukuhlangana rhoqo kunye nezihlobo uze wenze abahlobo.
Into ephambili - musa ukuyeka, zinyamekele, kwaye kungekudala eli xesha liya kudlula. Naluphi na ubunzima bukhona ebomini bethu kuphela ngexesha elithile, kwaye ke kuphela iimemori ezihlala kuzo.