Ngokuqhelekileyo ebomini bethu kukho imeko xa umntu esinikela esitsha, esingalindelekanga, kodwa oku kubonakala ngathi isisombululo esilula sombuzo othile, emva koko simangaliswe ixesha elide: "Kakade! Ndingazange ndicinge njani ngale nto ngaphambili? "Yaye isizathu silula - sifihliwe phambi kwayo yonke into engacingiyo. Omnye unalo ngokwemvelo. Kwaye abo bafunyaniswayo banokufumaneka.
Ukuphuhliswa kwengcamango engaqhelekanga yinkalo yomnqweno kunye nexesha. Ngenxa yoko, izazinzulu, abaphandi kunye nabathandanayo banomdla benza imisebenzi ehlukeneyo, imirhumo kunye neemvavanyo. Iimeko zabo zenziwe ngokukodwa ngendlela enokuba neprojekthi ethile entloko yakho. Kwaye ukuze ufumane isisombululo esifanelekileyo - kufuneka uhambe. Njengomgaqo, ukuvavanya ukucinga okungagqibekanga kuyadluliselwa lula ngabantwana - abayixhomekeke kwimimiselo yoluntu jikelele kunye nokucinga okuthe ngqo.
Uninzi lwabantu kwiminyaka ekhulileyo aluzange lijonge ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zokucinga. Siyaqiniseka ukuba ngokucinga kwethu konke kulungelelaniswe kwaye yonke into esinokuyihlakulela ngayo nokwenza ngaphakathi kwethu yafunyanwa njengomntwana. Nangona ukucinga kuyinto eyona nto esiyisebenzisayo kwimpilo yanamhlanje. Esikolweni, siyakwazi ukufundiswa ukuthobela, ukukwazi ukwamukela ingcamango yomntu ngaphandle kokukhononda, njengokuba yinyaniso enokuphela kwayo, ngenxa yoko ingqondo yethu ivaliwe kwezinye iimbono.
Abantu abaneengcinga ezingaqhelekanga banomdla ocebileyo, ubuchule obungavamile obungenangqondo, kwaye kungekhona nje into ephakamileyo yengqondo.
Indlela yokuhlakulela ingcamango engaqhelekanga?
Abaqeqeshi bokukhula ngokwabo kwimisinari yabo batusa ukunyamekela ukuphuhliswa kokucinga okungagqibekanga, tk. okwangoku yenye yezona zinto zixabisekileyo kakhulu. Banikeza iziphakamiso ezinjalo:
- Sebenzisa umgaqo "wolwazi olutsha." Funda ukuyeka into oyaziyo ngoku, jonga imeko, ngaphandle kweengcinga kunye neengcinga. Uninzi lwezifundo kunye nososayensi, naphezu kokuzithemba kwabo ngolwazi lwabo, balungele ukuxhomekeke ekuqinisekiseni nasekungathandabuzekiyo, ukuba idatha entsha ayilungiswanga nayo.
- Ukuqokelela amava ngokuthe ngqo. Khumbula ukuba nokuba ube kwiinkampani zeengcali uhlala uyingcali yamava. Ungaze uloyike ukubuza imibuzo uze ubonise uluvo lwakho. Xa unamava anakho, ubuninzi obunokuthi uya kuba nako ukucinga ngexesha elizayo xa wenza izigqibo.
- Ukusebenzisa "iingcamango zesikhwama." Kuya kukunceda ngakumbi ukuba uqaphele oko kwenzekayo kwaye, ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha, ukuqonda kwakho kuya kubambelela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi, uzame kuzo izinto ezintsha, ezingavamile nezigqibo. Hlela zonke iingcamango eziza engqondweni yakho, ngoko ziya kuphuhlisa ingqondo yakho engqondweni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucinga ngabo okanye hayi.
- Zama ukucinga ngaphantsi "ukusuka kuwe" kunye nokucacisa nayiphi na imeko. Naka ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha, kodwa ungalibaleki umfanekiso omkhulu. Yilungelelaniso lwazo zonke iinkcukacha kunye eziza kukunceda ukuba zingabonakali kwaye ziza kukunika ithuba lokulingana "ngamnye" kubo.
Ukuchonga ukuba ukucinga kwakho kuphuhliswe, iplastiki kunye nokuguquguquka, unokugqithisa ukuvavanya ukucinga okungagqibekanga. Umgaqo wolu vavanyo, ngokomthetho, kukugqithisela ukuba "ulale" umsebenzi wobukhohlo bakho obukhohlo, obangela uxanduva lokucinga, uze ubuze imibuzo engalindelekanga. Unokukhawuleza kangakanani ukukwazi ukuphendula, kwaye indlela yakho engaphenduliyo iya kuba yintoni kunye nezinga lokungahambisani nokucinga kwakho kuxhomekeke. Kwindawo enye, iifomati zidla ngokunikezelwa ngoluvo lwabantu abaninzi.
Uvavanyo lokungagqibekanga ukucinga - imizekelo
Kukho imibuzo eninzi ukujonga iphethini yokucinga. Sinike imizekelo yezinye zazo:
1. Kufuneka uphendule ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokucinga.
- Nguwuphi umbala iphepha?
- Mhlophe.
- Nguwuphi umbala isitya se toilet?
- Mhlophe.
- Nguwuphi umbala wekhephu?
- Mhlophe.
- Iyintoni na inkomo?
- Ubisi.
Omnye umsebenzi wolu hlobo:
- Ziziphi ezimbini ebaleni?
- Ezine.
- Ziziphi ezintathu ezisekwere?
- Nine.
- Yaye yintoni i-angle kwi square?
Ayikho nto, - ngokuqhelekileyo izimpendulo ze-interlocutor, ubuchopho bokuba sele bumnandi ulwazi lwe-arithmetical kwimemori, lukhusela ekuvela kwamanye amagama.
Enyanisweni, ikota ebhokisini - ayinanto. Kodwa sithetha ngenye into - umfanekiso wejometri. Ikona kwinqanaba liyi-degrees degrees.
3. I-enigmatic ithatha icwecwe lephepha kwaye ibhala: "Inkukhu, iPushkin, iTolstoy, i-Apple Tree, i-Nose" kwaye ibuza le mibuzo:
- I inkukhu?
- Imbongi waseRashiya?
- Umbhali waseRashiya?
- Umthi wezithelo?
- Icandelo lobuso?
Xa sele ufumene iimpendulo, uvelisa iphepha, kwaye kwi-99% yeziganeko iimpendulo ziya kuqikelelwa (okwenyani, ukuba umntu akazange afikelele le ngxaki ngaphambili).
Omnye wabalobi abathandwayo kunye nezivakalisi zikawonkewonke ekucingeni konke u-Paul Sloan. Ubhala iincwadi kwaye aqhuba iimina-mxholo malunga nomxholo wobunjineli, ubuchule kunye nophuhliso oluhlukeneyo.