Kubonakala ngathi ayikho intombazana, kodwa kungeyikho intokazi yobudala bukaBalza - ibhinqa, kodwa lingahluke. Omnye utshintsha iingubo ezincinci zeentombazana ezenzelwe iimpahla eziphathekayo, zihlawula ixesha kwaye zijonge kwixesha elizayo nethemba, kwaye umntu utshintshela kwi-slippers, ubeka into engenasiphelo kunye nokugungqa, ukugubungela, ukugubungela ... Le meko ibizwa ngokuba ngu-"'s's syndrome" , xa ungalindelanga nto ebalulekileyo ebomini, awuboni isizathu sokuzijonga kwaye ushiye ngokupheleleyo ubomi kunye nokunyamekela abantwana.
8 imiyalelo okanye indlela yokulahla isifo sika-anti wakho
- Okokuqala, kufuneka ubuyisele umfazi. Ewe, ukuhamba nomntwana kulungele izicathulo okanye izicathulo ze-ballet, kodwa izicathulo ezinqabileyo kufuneka zibe kwiidrobhe zowesifazane, njengengubo yeengubo zokuphuma. Ukuhlalisa umsila onothunqileyo entloko yakho: lixesha lokutshintsha umfanekiso, ukwenza ukubheja ekukhanyeni nobuntu. Kufuneka ukuba uqiniseke ukuba usenokuhamba-hamba! Yaye indala ayiyithintelo.
- Yenza konke ngokukhululeka nangothando. Ukuze uzive ukhulu kwaye ujabulele yonke iminithi echithwe nabantwana kunye nendoda, kubalulekile ukushiya indima yehashe eliqhutywe. Akukhoxesha elaneleyo lokucoca? Kukulungele ukutsala unyana okanye intombi yakhe, kwaye unokwenza ukuthenga kunye neentsapho zonke ngeveki.
- Kubonakala kukuhle nakwikhaya, xa kungekho mntu ngaphandle kwendlu eyibona. I-oldrobe ye-bathrobe endala ithatyathwa yikiti elula, kwaye akukho ziboya ezingcolileyo kunye nezipikili ezilungele kakuhle.
- Musa ukuba nomdla kwiimbono zabanye abantu. Ngu "oomama" kuphela abanomdla, "bathini abantu." Ibhinqa elithembekileyo lihamba ebomini nentloko yalo ibambe phezulu kwaye yenza kuphela oko akufunayo, ngaphandle kokujonga ngombono womnye umntu.
- Gxotha isifo sika-anti wakho, ukhumbule ukuba akukho mntu uhlawula nantoni na. Umama nomama akumele bahlale iiyure kwisitofu, balungiselela i-raznosoly kunye nemini yonke emzimbeni wendlu. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba umgangatho uhlamba kanye kuphela ngeveki, akukho mntu uya kufa kuwo, kwaye endaweni yesidlo se-5 ungadlulisela into ethile evela ekhaya kwimveliso eqingqiweyo .
- Umtshato odibeneyo, indoda ifuna ukujonga emva kwowesifazane-umhlobo, umthandi kunye nendalo,
kodwa kungekhona umpheki kunye nococeko. Unokubuza nayiphi na ilungu lezesondo eziqinileyo into ayithandayo: indlu ecocekileyo kunye ne-borsch, kodwa umfazi onomsindo kunye nengxabano okanye amaqanda aqhotyoshelwe kunye nesondo esingavunywanga, kodwa kunye nokuhle, ukukhohlisa, ngaphezu kwayo yonke intokazi enomusa, kuyo yonke into kwaye ihlale ixhasa umyeni wayo? Impendulo ayinangqiqo. - Isifo sika-Aunt siya kuhamba xa ujabulela ngokwakho, abanye, usuku olutsha, umoya omncinane kunye nazo zonke izinto ezincinci ezenza ubomi.
- Njalo kwaye yonke indawo ulungele ukulala ngesondo. Ungesabi uvavanyo kwaye uvuyise iqabane lakho.