Amantombazana amaninzi emva kokuphazamiseka kokuqala kunye nokukhathazeka, kwaye emva kwexesha kunomnqweno wokuziphindezela zonke izinto eziye zadlula. Iinjongo ezinjalo zempindezelo zihlala zihlala zihlala zintloko kwaye ezinye iindawo zokutshintshela ziyaqhubeka zishukunyayo.
Namhlanje unokufumana inani elikhulu lamabali, njengalolu okanye le ntombazane iphinde yabuyisela umfana, ngokubukela iipopayi kunye nezinye izono. Iingcali zengqondo zithi iimbono eziyinkimbinkimbi ayifanele ibe yinyani, kuba kungcono ukwenza ngokusebenzayo.
Ngaba kukuhle ukuphindezela umfana?
Ngaphambi kokuqwalasela iingcamango ezidumileyo phakathi kwabantu besetyhini, ndingathanda ukuthetha ukuba kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ubukho bomntu owawuthandana naye ngaphambili, oku kungakhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu, ngoko ungayithandi.
Kubuhle gqitha ukuphindezela umntu:
- Amaninzi amaninzi anqumle ukuphazamisa "intonti" ethandekayo yomntu owayesithandayo, umzekelo, ukulimaza imoto yakhe. Musa nje ukubambelela, njengokuba ukwanele ukuthulula i-valerian hood okanye uthele imbewu ukuze ukhange amajuba.
- Unako ukukhwela igama lakhe. Kubalulekile ukuxelela abahlobo abambalwa malunga nantoni na izinto ezingathandekiyo ezinxulumene nomthandana wangaphambili, kwaye "igama lomlomo" liya kwenza umsebenzi walo.
- Amantombazana amaninzi anqwenela ukuba enze umona kwaye afune abahlobo abasondeleyo okanye abaqhelana nabo. Kulo mbandela, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ungadlala nemvakalelo yomnye umntu, njengoko umntu enokuziphindezela.
- Unqwenela ukulahla umntu ongaphambili wokuphumla iintsuku eziliqela, ngoko kwiimveliso zentengiso zibeka iintengiso ezahlukileyo, ezibonisa inombolo yakhe yefowuni.
- Inketho efanelekileyo kunye neyona ndlela ingcono yokuziphindisela kwi-ex-boyfriend yenze ukuba azisole kukuba ulahlekelwe nguwe. Yiya kwiinguqu eziphambili, kwaye oku kusebenza kokubonakala kunye nokuzaliswa kwangaphakathi. Yiba yinto enhle kuye, kwaye makhe amlume, aze alahle idayimane elinjalo.