Uthando phakathi kwabasetyhini

Umfazi - ukubonakaliswa koxolo, isisa kunye nothando. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ungamthandi umfazi. Yonke into enhle kuyo - zombini isimo sengqondo, kunye nesisa esingapheliyo, kunye nokuziphatha kwangempela. Amadoda ayasihlonipha, umfazi udinga indoda efana nomoya. Kuthekani kuthi xa ibhinqa liyamkela umfazi? Kufuneka njani ukuba uthando luvela phakathi kwabafazi ababini? Ubonakalo obunjalo beemvakalelo kubangela ukusabela okungafaniyo kuluntu. Apha, njengoko bathi, musa ukugweba abanye ...

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Umphefumlo ufuna umntu. Okwenene, oqinileyo, onokumisela nokunyamekela. Kuthiwani ukuba loo madoda ayinayo. Akukhathazeki ukuba baye baqhawula, siya kulinda. Ngokwalingcamango, eli themba alisoyikiyo nhlobo. Kodwa xa kuziwa ekusebenzeni, imeko iyatshintsha kakhulu. Ukudumala rhoqo kwintsebenziswano nendoda, ukungaphumeleli ukukhetha indoda, ukungabi khona kwendoda ethembekileyo ecaleni kwayo - zonke ezi meko zingamthinteli umfazi ekufuneni kwakhe. Nje "iiparitha" zolu cwaningo kufuneka zilungiswe. Kwaye kwenzeka ebomini ukuba ngumfazi oba yintando yowesifazane othile.

Kutheni abantu besithandana bathandana - impendulo yalo mbuzo ibhekise ekuziphatheni nasekuveleleni. Ukuba ubheka izibini zesini zesini, unokwazi ukulandelela indlela ethile: kwimbini yeF + F, njengomthetho, iqabane elinye linomntu "wesilisa" wesini, ngelixa elinye liyindoda kwaye libuthathaka. Ngoko kuvela ukuba ibhinqa elabona kwelinye iqela lomfazi, ukuzimisela, isibindi, engayifumananga kumntu, iqala ukunyusa iimvakalelo zakhe nethemba lokufumana ulonwabo emva kwayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uthando lwabasetyhini ababini luvela kwiminqweno yomnye wabo ukunyamekela iqabane elibuthathaka. Uvakalelwa intonga ethile "yindoda", umfazi uthanda nothando lomfazi okanye umfazi. Nangona kunjalo, impendulo kumbuzo wokuba kutheni abasetyhini bathanda abafazi banxulumene ngokusondeleyo nokukhuliselwa kwabo, ingqondo kunye nesondo. Kuphosakeleyo ukubiza umnqweno kubameli bezocalulo zesini. Mhlawumbi kulungile "I-clouding yesikhashana yengqondo."

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi banokuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo, ubudlelwane obusondelene nabo, kwaye kwixesha elizayo balondoloze ubudlelwane obunobungane ngaphandle kokuba neentloni zabo. Oku kuphinda kuchazwe ubulili besini kunye nekhono. Ibhinqa likhangele ukuzonwabisa kunye nomlingane onothando kunye onothando, ngokuba "ngumfazi". Ukubonakaliswa kobuthathaka akuyona into engafanelekanga kumfazi kunye noluntu aluvunyelwe. Ngako oko, ingqondo yengqondo kumfazi okhoyo akukho mithintelo eninzi yokugqiba ubudlelwane bobulili obufanayo.

Lowo unayo isalathisi esilandelayo, ngokuchanekileyo wathi: "Sithandana nomntu, kungekhona ngesini."