Iqabane lakho lithathwe emkhosini? Kwaye awukwazi ukuba uziphathe njani kwimeko efanayo? Akumangalisi, le meko ayilunganga, kwaye kuyaqhelekileyo ukuba intombazana ididekile kwaye ayiyazi into enokuyenza ukuba iqabane lakhe lisemkhosini. Sizakuzama ukukunceda uqonde iimvakalelo zakho nezenzo zakho, kwaye wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
Mhlawumbi umbuzo oqhelekileyo ukuba intombazana intombazana ngumbuzo: "Ungalindela njani umfana emkhosini?". Impendulo iyinkimbinkimbi kwaye ilula ngexesha elifanayo: linda nje uze ukhumbule ukuba kungekudala inkonzo yakhe iya kugqiba kwaye intanda yakho iya kubuya. Akuyimfuneko ukuguqula umlindi womkhosi ukuvalelwa ezintongeni ezine. Qhubeka uhola ubomi obuqhelekileyo, uye kwi-cinema, udibana nabahlobo, hamba. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba iqabane lakho lisemkhosini, ubomi bakho abufaneleki ukuyeka. Wayehlala uhlala ngandlela-thile ngaphambi kokudibana naye, akunjalo? Vumkela ukungabi khona kwakhe njengento efunekayo kwaye ulinde kude yonke into ibuyele kwindawo yayo.
Ngaba ndimele ndilindele umntu ophuma emkhosini?
Kufuneka uqale ngento yokuba ukuba loo mbuzo uzalwe entloko yakho, ke wena, kwindawo ethile eminzini yomphefumlo wakho, wamukele imeko enjalo. Kungaba ukungabikho ntembelo kwiimvakalelo zakho, oko kukuthi, ungaqiniseki ukuba uya kufuna ukuqhubeka ulwalamano nalo mfana emva kokuba ebuya. Kule meko, unokukucebisa ngexeshana ukulibala ukuba unomfana, kwaye wenze njengoko ufuna. Ngeli xesha uya kukwazi ukuqonda oko ufuna ngokwenene: ukulinda umfana osuka emkhosini okanye ukujonga entsha.
Yintoni ebhalela umntu emkhosini?
Ewe, nantoni na. Ukuqala kwimicimbi yamuva eyenzekayo kwisixeko sakho, kwaye iphetha ngokuchazwa kwemizwa yakho. Kwaye akubalulekanga ukuba ubhale umfana emkhosini, kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba uza kukwenza kaninzi kangakanani. Ngokufika kweefowuni zefowuni, yonke into sele ilula kakhulu. Iileta zingatshintshwa ngeefowuni kunye neesms. Unokuthumela ngokukhuselekileyo ii-sms-ke ngeentsuku - akuninzi. Unako umyalezo omnye emva kweentsuku ezimbini. Ukuba ubhala kwaye ubiza umnqweno wancinci - umfana unokungaqiniseki ukuba uyalindela. Kodwa zama uzame ukulibala ngamaphepha ephepha, bhala ubuncinane ii-2-3 iinyanga ngenyanga-akuyikukhathaza, kwaye kuya kuba mnandi kumntu.
Yintoni enokuyifaka umfana emkhosini?
Isigqibo esona sichanekileyo siya kuba kukufumanisa oko mntu angenayo. Oku kunokuba kukutya, kunye nekhaya. Kakade ke, akudingeki ukuba uthwale iimveliso ezinokutsha (amaqebelengwane, isobho, njl.). Kungcono ukuzisa izantyambo, izithelo ezomileyo (i-apricots ezomileyo, iziqhamo, iinqununu), ii-pie, i-gingerbread, i-candy. Buza ukuba ufikeleleko lwe-shaving okanye ucoceko oluyimfuneko kumntu, emkhosini kaninzi kukho ukuphazamiseka ngezinto ezinjalo zokusetyenziswa.
Ungamxhasa njani umfana emkhosini?
Ukuxhasa umfana emkhosini unokumhlawula ngethemba, kunye nokuqinisekileyo ukuba uyathandwa kwaye ulinde ekhaya. Yintoni yokwenza oku? Ungalibali ukubhala iincwadi zamadoda (njengendlela yokukhetha - i-sms-ki), thabatha umdla kwimicimbi yakhe, ukuba kunokwenzeka - ngokuqhelekileyo kuza kuye.
Yintoni enokumnika umntu emva komkhosi?
Oku mhlawumbi yimeko kuphela xa kungcono ukunika i-trinket, kodwa enye iya kukukhumbuza kwiminyaka embalwa. Kodwa musa ukukhawuleza ukuthenga i-statuettes kunye ne-trinkets. Kungcono ucinge ngeendlela ezinje njengegitala, umfanekiso, ibhotile, chess, njl njl. Okokuthi, isipho akufanele sigcinwe kwi-shelf, kodwa ubuncinci besetyenziswe rhoqo.