Kubonakala ngathi uthando, ngakumbi uthando lwabantu ababini, lufanele lube lufanayo kubo. Nangona kunjalo, uthando lwabesetyhini kunye namadoda luhluke kakhulu. Akukho mfihlo yokuba amadoda nabesifazane bacinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo, jonga ihlabathi ngokuhlukileyo kwaye uhlalutye iimeko. Yiyo imbono yendoda yothando isahluke ngokupheleleyo kwintombi.
Ukuba umfazi uyamthanda, uya kwandisa imizwa yakhe. Kuye, kufuneka nje ukuba ube kufuphi nomxholo wothando, uyichukumise, uvale ubukho bakhe kwaye uhlale ubonakalisa uthando lwakho ngezinto ezintle. Uthando lomntu oyinyaniso lubonakalisa ngendlela ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Indoda ayinakukubiza ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngosuku ukuze unqwenele imini okanye ubusuku obuhle. Makhe sibone indlela kwaye uthando lwabesilisa lubonakala ngayo.
Iimpawu zothando lomntu
Ukwahlula umxholo othi "uthando lomntu", nokuba yintoni enokuba yiyo, kufuneka ukwazi ukungafani okona phakathi kwothando lwabesilisa nabesifazana. Uthando lwabantu aluzibolekeli kwiimvakalelo kunye nokugqithwa okungalawulwayo. Kukho into ebizwa ngokuba yintsimbi yesigxina esithandweni. Uthando lwendoda lunengqiqo kwaye luyafana, luvela kancane kwaye lukhula ngosuku ngalunye.
Ubonakaliso obuninzi bothando lomntu lulele kwimeko yokuba ulwalamano lwakho lukhula lube kwisigaba esitsha sokufaneleka. Ugqithisa ixesha lothando lokuqala kunye nesithando esivuthayo, kwaye indoda iyaqonda ukuba ibhinqa elisecaleni layo lifanelekele indima yomlingane wobomi. Olu luthando lokwenene lomfazi lubonakaliswe kweli nqanaba kwaye lubonakaliswe ziimpawu ezilandelayo.
- Indoda iyazibonakalisa kunye neqabane lakhe, isebenzisa "thina" endaweni yokuba "Ndiye," ixhala ngokuhlala kunye, izicwangciso zekamva.
- Indoda ichitha ixesha elide kunye nomfazi kunokuba kunye nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo kukubonakalisa ukuba unomdla kwaye unelulungekile kuluntu lwakhe.
- Le ndoda iya kuba ngumcebisi wexesha lokuzibandakanya - kunye nokuphumla, kunye nobomi nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Laba bahlobo abasondeleyo.
- Indoda izisa umntu wakhe okhethiweyo kubazali bakhe nabahlobo bakhe, njengokungeniswa kwakhe ebomini bakhe, kwisangqa sayo esivaliweyo.
- Indoda ithembela umfazi wakhe indlu / imoto ibonakaliso lwethemba eliphezulu kunye nesimo.
- Nokuba ingxabano enkulu (xa kwenzeka ukuba iphelile ngokuxolelana) inokuba ngumqondiso wokwenene uthando lomntu, kuba ngale ndlela indoda ilwa nomfazi kwaye ibonisa ukuba uyamkhathalela.
- Le ndoda ingathethi kuphela ngezicwangciso ezihlangeneyo zekamva, kodwa ibonisa ezinye izenzo. Lo ngumqondiso obalulekileyo kunye wokugqibela wokubonakalisa uthando lomntu.
Ukuqinisa uthando lomntu
Ngoko, uyaqiniseka ukuba umntu uyakuthanda kwaye ufuna ukuba nawe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze unomdla kwaye ungavumeli ukuba iimvakalelo zipholile, kuyafaneleka ukuphulaphula ezinye iingcebiso.
- Hlalani nihlala ninemihlali, nilungise izicwangciso ezidibeneyo, musa ukuxhalabisa nokuphelelwa yithemba, yiba "yiholide-yindoda" enomntu onomdla naye, onomdla kwaye engakhathazeki.
Emva koko uya kufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nawe. - Musa ukunyanzelisa, gcina umgama, ungakhathazeki, uhloniphe inkululeko yabantu kunye nokuzimela. Indoda kufuneka ifike kwizigqibo ezilungileyo, imizamo yakho yokumxelela "impendulo efanelekileyo" inokukhokelela ekuhambeni okuchaseneyo.
- Gcina iphazili kumntu, zama ukumenza afune ukwazi ngawe ngokusemandleni akho, ungawuvuli ngokupheleleyo, zinike ikhefu kumlingane wakho.
- Gcina izinto ezithandwayo zendoda, nangona ungabi nentshiseko ngabo, okanye ubuncinane ungabathinteli.
- Zama ukukholisa abahlobo bakhe nabazali, kuba uluvo lwabo lubaluleke kakhulu kumntu.