Ngamnye wethu, ewe, wafumana leli gama. Sincoma kuqala ukuba siqonde ukuba yeyiphi indlela eneenkukhu. Inqaku elichanekileyo apha lithetha "indoda elawulwa ngumfazi". Enoba umntu uyindoda ekhukhumele, uya kufumana xa ufunda le nqaku ukuphela.
Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zedatha yedalwa
Ukuze uhlawule!
- I-Podakabluchnik iyavuya: la madoda ahluke kukuba ayenamava aphakamileyo, xa eqhuba imiyalelo yabasetyhini babo. Bakukulungele ukufumana inkwenkwezi esibhakabhakeni, igama lomhlaba ekuhloniphekeni kwakhe, kwaye, ke, kumnika i-Land Cruiser entsha, ukuba kuphela umhlobo wakhe ovuyayo. Kule meko, loo ndoda iya kuba yinkosana yangempela ekulungele yonke into ngenxa yaloo mpumkani.
- I-hpecked ikhulwini lekhosenti: ukungabi nantando, ukuzimela kunye neqhinga . Ibhinqa ligqiba into emibini, ihlala ivumelana nayo, ngaphandle kokubona kwakhe. Umntu onjalo-onobuncwane obuthathwe ngokukhawuleza uya kuzalisekisa yonke into enqwenelayo kunye neenkwenkwezi. Unelisekile ngale meko yezinto, ukhululekile kwaye ngoko uya kuhlala entanyeni yakho ngokuvuya. Ukuba unalo lonke uncedo lwaloo ndawo, masiqaphele ingongoma enye, yonke into ewela kuyo: unokubulala umntu kulo. Uya kuguqula ubukhulu bakhe, kwaye kunye nalo, amandla akhe kwisini iya kuphelela, kwaye iingxaki zokulungisa ziya kuvela.
- I-Henpecked - i-pretender: lo mntu unengqondo yakhe, kodwa uxolo lwalo mfazi, kulula ukuba ahlale ethule kwaye avumelane naye. Okokuqala, uyayixabisa ukucoceka nokuthula ngaphakathi kwendlu, ngoko uzenza ngathi uyazithoba. Uya kuzama ukuzisebenzisela oku, kodwa ngelo xesha uya kuqinisekisa ukuba lo mfazi uya kuba ngumpumelelo.
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungenza njani umfana onobuhlungu, landela le mithetho elula, ngoko uya kuphumelela!
Ungaziqonda njani i-henpecked?
Kukho imiqondiso ethile yokuziphatha podkabluchnika. Ngoko, indoda yakho ikhuni:
- Ukuba intloko yentsapho yinkwenkwezi ejongene nayo yonke ingxaki, kwaye indoda iyavuma nje ngezenzo zakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lingakwazi ukuphikisana nomyeni wayo ngaphezu kwezinto ezintle, kodwa uyayinyamezela into yonke.
- Ukuba umfazi uthatha isigqibo sokuba yintoni na ukuthenga umntu, ngelixa echithwe ngumvuzo wakhe.
- Ukuba ukuphumla kohlobo lwabahlobo bendoda kuqala kokucela imvume "kumgcini wendlu".
- Ukuba umfazi unokuhlazisa indoda aze amenze amazwana phambi koobungazi.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liyakwazi ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakhe kuye, okungekho mntu akwenzayo.
Bafazi! Khumbula ukuba indoda kufuneka ihlale ingumntu, kuzo zonke iimeko.
"Ndiyindoda kwaye ndilungile"
Ukuze umntu wakho anikezele kuwe kwaye athobe, akuyimfuneko ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakhe nokusebenzisa izixhobo ezinamandla. Uya kuncedwa ngokunyamekela, ukunyamekela, ukuthandana, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubuqili. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona iindlela zokuxhaphaza ukwenza indoda ikhuni:
- Nguwe, okokuqala, umfazi, kungekhona umtyholi. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba sonke isicelo sakho kunoma yimuphi umntu kufuneka sithande. Emva kwakho konke, uyathandeka, umfazi kwaye uyamnandi.
- "Yeyiphi i-sock!" Kwaye ingelosi kufuneka ibe lizwi! "- ixesha elidlulileyo abantu bafunda ukuthoba. Kutheni ungasebenzisi le ndlela? Unokwenza ukuncoma kumntu, umdumise, ucebe ukuzithemba kwakhe-ngoko indoda iya kuba sezinyaweni zakho.
- Umntu makabeke ihlombe lakhe elithembekileyo xa wena
bonisa ukukhuseleka kwakho. - Kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo kunye nokuzithemba kwekhethiweyo wakho ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Unokumthanda ubuchule bakhe, umdumise ngomsebenzi owenze kakuhle. Yonke ingqiqo ilula.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukuva ukuba ubukho bendoda ehlanjululwe ngamanye amaxesha bubumnandi, kodwa ucinge malunga nokuba unelungelo elingakanani? Ngaba ufuna ngempela i-satellite? Ngaba, uyamhlonela kunye nezenzo zakhe? Emva kwakho konke, unako ukufezekisa iziphumo ezifunwayo ngoncedo lwe-charisma yesetyhini kunye nobulumko bentombi, kwaye ungayiphuli intloko ngaphakathi kwendoda.