Kuthekani ukuba loo ntombazana nentombazana sele idibene kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye ngokucacileyo lithandana, kodwa ukhetho olungabalulekanga aluyi kuthatha nantoni na? Ihlazo? Mhlawumbi ungathandabuzi iimvakalelo ze ntombazana, kuba iziphatha ngokubanda kakhulu? Mhlawumbi, kuyimfuneko ukunyusa umfana othile ngandlela-thile?
Kakade ke, kufuneka senze konke ngokufanelekileyo kwaye singabi nxamnye, ngokukodwa ukuba intombazana ayikhangeli isondo, kodwa ulwalamano olungapheliyo, ngokukhethekileyo iintsapho. Ukuba loo mntu ucinga okokuqala - yonke ilahlekile. Akasoze aphathe intombazana ngenhlonipho. Uya kuba ngumntu odlala ngothando ngothando.
Indoda, eqinisweni, ungumzingeli kunye nomnqobi. Uthanda ukuthatha inyathelo ngokwakhe. Kodwa into iyamyeka. Kuphela ngoku xabisa umfazi othe ngqo kwaye wamhlulela ngokubhekiselele embhedeni wakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kuthi.
Ngoko, hlekisa, kodwa ukuze loo mntu acinge ukuba yonke inyathelo ivela kuphela kuye.
Kubukhulu kangakanani ukuvuya kumfana onxibe ngeengubo?
Ukuya kwintlanganiso eqinile, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphelisise i-wardrobe yakho. Impahla kufuneka ibe yintlonkco kwaye ayikho into enqabileyo. Kutheni kuxoxwa ngesondo kwaye kunjalo. Kodwa kutheni ungabi ncokola kakhulu? Ewe, ngenxa yesifuba se-naked we ntombazana loo mfana uyamjonga ixesha lesigama seyure, kwaye akayi kuphinda avuselele ingcamango yakhe. Kodwa esifubeni, ngokukhawuleza ehlanganiswe ngombala omncinci, uyayiphonononga umboniso ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ebuza ukuba yintoni na. Ngoko ukuba intombazana, ihlambuluke, icinga indlela yokonwabela umfana ngokusemandleni akho, kubalulekile ukukhumbula: "naye" akuyona into efanelekileyo.
Kuye kwaziwa ngexesha elide abantu abanamava e-coquette abazange baveze zonke izinto ezivuyisayo. Indoda ifanele ifune ukubona oku ngakumbi, oku kuya kumnceda ngaphezu kokunyaniseka okungakumbi. Akukho mini kunye ne-decollete. Isiketi esiphakathi okanye i-maxi ene-cut, i-blouse eqinile. Okanye unako ukudlula, kodwa ke ingxaki ingaphantsi kweengubo. Impahla yangaphantsi emininzi iyinto ekhethekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha umbala okanye uyinqumle ingqongqo. Kufuneka ucinge, ngaba iya kubukeka ilungileyo phantsi kwefayili ebonakalayo?
Izikhwele - izinwele, akukho nto. Kwintanyeni yintambo efanelekileyo okanye amanqam
Ukwenza ngcono kukukhanya, kodwa kufuneka ugxininise imilomo yakho nge pencil.
Indlela yokuziphatha ukuze ukhuthaze umfana?
Zama ukumxelela ukuba intombazana inomdla. Ukumjonga emehlweni, ukumnceda. Hayi, musa ukunyanzela! Kubalulekile ukufumana into efana neyona nto. Hlanganisa ukuba uzuze ezi mpawu uze uqale ukumemeza ngokuzwakalayo. Amadoda athanda kakhulu xa adunyiswa (abafazi, nangona kunjalo), loo mfana akayi kuhlala engathandanga.
Ukuphosa iingcamango eziyimfihlelo kunye nemigca engakwazi ukuyiqonda kwaye ngoko intombazana inomdla kakhulu - kwaye oko akunjalo. Ekuphenduleni umbuzo ongenamacala, kufuneka uhlale uthule uze uncumo omncinci, ungathathi amehlo akho kumfana. Ukugcina ikhefu. Emva koko buka uze unciphise amehlo akho.
Indlela yokuzonwabisa nomntu onomtsalane?
Ukuba izinto sele zihamba kakuhle, kukufanelekile ukuvumela umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba intombazana ixhomekeke ekuthandaneni. Yibambe ngenyameko unyawo ngonyawo lwakhe. Ukudansa,
Unokuqala ngokubanga kuphela. Amadoda ngokukodwa njengamabango emlonyeni nasemlonyeni. Intombazana imele ithandeke kwaye ibe yendalo, emva kokubanga emlonyeni kubalulekile ukuya kwamehlo, entanyeni, ezindlebeni. Emva koko wamanga emlonyeni kwakhona.
Ngamanye amaxesha amantombazana acinga indlela yokukhawuleza ukuba mnandi. Akufanelekanga! Ukuba isondo asixhatshazi, siqala nge-caresses emnandi, kunye nomdlalo wesondo, kuya kuzisa umnwabo ngakumbi kokubili.