Umntu ngamnye ungobugovu, nangona kukho abo bazinikela kwisigaba se-altruists, bephika ukubonakaliswa kobugovu ekuziphatheni kwabo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba i- egoism isingqiqo kwaye ingenangqiqo. Makhe siqwalasele ngokubanzi inkalo yokuqala.
Iingcamango zengqiqo
Ukuba uthetha ngolwimi lwezenzululwazi, ngoko luhlobo lwe-egoism lixesha elimisela ngamnye umntu into ephambili ebalulekileyo kwiminqweno yabo ngokweenjongo zoluntu okanye ezinye iziqu. Ukuqonda okungcono, makhe sihlalutye le ngcamango ngomzekelo wowesifazane owaphonswa ngumthandi.
Ngoko, uza kuza ukubona isazi sengqondo kwaye sele sele eseseshini yokuqala uyazibuza: "Yintoni omele uyenze xa uqaphela ukuba umntu akakuchatha kakubi, uqonda ngengqondo yakho ukuba kwakungekho uthando, kwaye lusizi umphefumlo wakho Impendulo ilula: ukufaka entliziyweni yakho umsebenzi wokuzingca ophilileyo, oko kukuthi, endaweni yokulila idizi kunye nokukhalisa iililogram zakho, kufuneka ukhumbule intanda yakho. ulwimi lwangaphandle, ubuyekeze ikhabethe lakho, ungabi ucingo ngeli xesha ngexesha elifanayo ekunxibelelaneni nabanye.
Ngaloo nto kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umgaqo-mfundiso onokuzikhethela into efana negolide yegolide phakathi kokuzingca kunye nokunyaniseka .
Xa ibhinqa lifumana ingqiqo yezinto ezinobulungisa ezivela kwiintsuku zokuqala zokuzibandakanya nomntu akhethiweyo, uvelisa kuye ingqiqo yolu xanduva oluya kulungeleka xa le nkosikazi ivuyisa imvume yakhe yokuqinisa ulonwabo ngumtshato.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba kufuneka uvumele umntu ukuba akhathalele. Ngamanye amaxesha unzima kwaye ungakhuseli. Kubandakanya ukuzingca. Kwiintsebenziswano kunye namandla anamandla kweli hlabathi, le ngqungquthela kufuneka ikhokelwe. Zithande kakhulu ngaphezu kweqabane lakho. Iqabane lakho liyakuthanda kuphela ngothando oluqinileyo, xa uya kubonisa uthando olunjalo kuwe.