Abantu abaninzi banqwenela ukubuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo ukwenzela ukulungisa iimpazamo ezenziwe okanye ukuva iimvakalelo ezithile. Konke oku kunquma ukufaneleka kwesihloko - ungabuyisela ixesha. Uphononongo kule ndawo lujongene nomlingo wexesha. Iingxabano malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka yini ukufudlulela kwixesha elidlulileyo nangaphezulu ukwenzela ukuba into ishintshile khona kude kube ngoku.
Unokufumana njani ixesha ngokuncedwa ngumlingo?
Kukholelwa ukuba ingqalelo igcina zonke iziganeko zexesha elidlulileyo, ngoko ngokuncedwa ngcamango ungabuyela emuva ukuze uhlaziye yonke into ngendlela entsha. Kucacile ukuba umzimba womzimba awukwazi ukuthunyelwa kwixesha elidlulileyo, nangona abantu basebenzayo ekudalweni kwexesha lomshini. Indlela elula kakhulu kwaye ifumaneka ngayo wonke umntu, indlela yokubuyisa ebomini kwithuba elidlulileyo - qhagamshelana nengqondo ye-psychoanalyst onokukwazi ukungena kwi-hypnotic state. Ingcali inokukunceda ukuba uphile naluphi na umqathango kwixesha elidlulileyo, okwenza kube lula ukufumana izigqibo ezithile, cingisisa into ebalulekileyo, njl. Ndingathanda ukusho ekuqaleni ukuba kuya kuthatha umzamo omkhulu kunye nexesha lokuphumelela.
Kukho iindlela ezimbini ezaziwa kakhulu ukubuyela emva kwexesha ngomlingo:
- Amaphupha aqaphelayo . Kukho ubuchule obuninzi obuvumela ukuba ufunde indlela ozizwa ngayo kumaphupha akho. Ukwenza oku, kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuphumla kwaye ngexesha elifanayo kugxininisa kwiimbali ezenzeka ngamaphupha. Xa umntu eqonda ukuba akayinyani, unokuhambahamba ngexesha, abuyele kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ahlangene neziganeko, inani elingenakulinganiswa kwamaxesha.
- Ukucamngca . Ukuqonda ukuba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisela ixesha, kuyafaneleka ukuthetha ngale ndlela efanelekileyo. Umntu kufuneka azame ukugxila kwiinjongo, ukulahla zonke iingcinga kunye nemvakalelo engaphandle. Ndiyabulela oku, umphumo "wokubuyisela imfundo" ufezekiswe, oko kukuthi, zonke iziganeko ezivela ebomini obusedlulileyo zingaphila kwakhona.
Ukuba unomdla wendlela yokubuyisela ixesha emva koko, ungazama isithethe esilula. Kubalulekile ukuthatha iphepha elilodwa kwaye ubhale
"Vumela ukuba umoya wexesha usikhuphe
Kwaye ngeyure ngexesha lethu liya kubuya
Yiba njalo. "
Hlala phantsi embhedeni uze uzame ukuphumla kangangoko kunokwenzeka, uzinike umlingo.
Iingcali ezisemkhakheni weemilingo zithetha ukuba okwangoku akukho ndlela eya kukuvumela ukuba ubuyele kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye utshintshe ezinye iziganeko ebomini bakho, umzekelo, ukukhusela intlekele. Unokufumana nje iziganeko uze uzive iimvakalelo, kodwa akukho.