Ngokuqinisekileyo uvile ngaphezu kweyodwa, xa besithi phakathi kwabo besithi: "Ungumntu onomdla!". Ngokukhawuleza kukho ukucinga ukuba sithetha ngomntu okhangayo, oqaqambileyo. Kwaye lithetha ntoni eli binzana?
Kuthetha ntoni "umntu onomdla"?
Eli binzana liqhakazile kwaye lizilinga ngokwalo, ukuba lithatha imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo emininzi engqondweni yabasetyhini. Ukuba ukhangele kwisichazamazwi uze ubone intsingiselo yamagama athi "Umntu ongenakwenzeka", ngoko yonke into iya kucima ngokukhawuleza. Intsingiselo yelizwi elithi "indoda" sele isaziwa kuthi, kodwa "umdlalo" ovela kwisiRashiya ukusuka kwisiFrentshi ithetha indlela enomdla, onobukrakra, obuhle, obunomntu, obuhle, obumnandi, obunomdla, obunomdla. Kukho uphawu lokuba esi sichazi ngokuqhelekileyo sichaza uhlobo lokubonakala kwindoda, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha idluliselwa kwezinye izinto.
Phantse lo mpapasho luveliswa ngeli gama, nangona ungazange ujwayelane nentsingiselo yayo yesichazi magama. Ukuthetha ngomntu onomdla, sithetha umntu okhangayo, oqaqambileyo, ophumelelayo.
Nangona kunjalo, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, kumbuzo wendlela umntu okhutheleyo uthetha ngayo, kukho nokuba neengcingo. Emva koko, ingcamango yendlela umntu ohloniphekileyo, ontlekhenkco kufuneka abonakale ngayo, utshintshe kunye nexesha.
Umntu ongenakwenzeka
Ngoko, khumbula kwakhona ukuba ibinzana lethu libhekisela kumntu onikwe izi mpawu ezilandelayo: umdla onomdla, onobuhle, onobuhle, onomntu, ontlekayo, onomdla, onika umdla.
Ukuba uyamenywa ukuba ubonise umntu okhutheleyo, uthi, ngekhulu le-19, ngubani oya kummela? Kungenzeka ukuba, luya kuba luhlobo oluthile "oludakayo", njengoEugene Onegin, onobungangamsha, akasebenzi, uchitha iintsuku zakhe ngokuzonwabisa kunye neebhola, wafundiswa, njengokuba kunjalo kwindoda ephakamileyo yekhulu le-19. Uyinto enhle, enomtsalane, enobuhle, nozukileyo.
Kuthiwani ngomntu onomdla kwixesha lethu? Ukuhlaziya kunye nokuthakazelisa, sibheka ngokubhekiselele kubabukeli be-TV, abadlali kunye neemvumi, kodwa kungekhona bonke abantu abavela kule nkalo abanokuthiwa ngabameli. Siqwalasela abaphathi abaphezulu, iintloko zeenkampani, abaphathi, abaphathi abahlukahlukeneyo kunye neenkokheli ukuba babe ngabantu abahloniphekileyo, kodwa asibafumani bonke babenomdla.
Ingxaki esilandelayo inokuphakama: ngakwesinye icala, umntu ogqwesileyo ugqoke kwisitayela seklasi, nangakolunye uhlangothi, akahambisani nemifuziselo yefashoni. Namhlanje le ngcamango idla ngokukhawuleza kakhulu, kwaye iyacaca ukuba ngubani obalaseleyo-leyo leyo ibeka iindleko eziqinileyo zexabiso eliqhelekileyo, okanye ogqokayo kuphela kwizinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-brand name style, apho ngamnye
Kodwa ke, ngubani omele ucinge xa uva "indoda ekhangayo"? Kuya kuba yindoda, inokwenzeka ukuba, ineminyaka engama-25 ukuya ku-30, igqoke ngokugqithiseleyo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ngentsingiselo, kwizinto ezinobulunga, ukubukeka okukhangayo, okukhunjulwayo, ekhangayo ekunxibelelaneni kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukuhlala kwindawo ethile ehloniphekileyo. Ngokuvisisanayo, ngexesha lethu, xa imali ingasombulula isimo sengqondo kumntu, kunzima ukucinga ngeplumberhi yindoda enomdla.