Ngamanye amaxesha lo mbuzo uzibuzwa ngokwawo abo bafazi abangadutshulwa ngenxa yokukhutshwa kwamaphephancwadi. Kwaye abo banokugubha amehlo abo bephekile. Kwabafazi bezoshishino, kunye nabafazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana angatshatanga (kwaye akunjalo) abonisa indlela abafazi abathanda ngayo amadoda. Makhe sikwenze kwaye thina.
Luhlobo luni lwabasetyhini abafana nabo?
Hayi, asiyi kufumana ifomula enye, kuba (kunye nethemba), amadoda ayenzi njengento enzima njengoko kukhangeleka kuqala. Thatha, umzekelo, umbuzo wabesifazane abathanda amadoda ngaphandle. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezininzi zazo zimelela i-ideal yazo ngendlela ebonakalayo ikopi yenkwenkwezi ye-movie, kwaye iyakwazi ukubonakalisa izinto ezikhethiweyo kumaritha omtshakazi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubumba ubunzulu, akusoloko phantsi kwesithsaba yinkwenkwana yamaphupha. Kwaye oku akuthinteli abantu ukuba bathande abakhethiweyo. Vumela kwaye uqhubeke ubheka abo abakude kwi-TV.
Nangona i-adversi ikhuthaza imilinganiselo engqongileyo yobuhle, ebonisa ukuba ngabafazi bafanele bathande abantu ngokungafaniyo, amanani athi amabhinqa anamafutha anemiba eninzi njengabantu abanomhlaza. Kunikezelwa ukuba iifom zabo zilingana, inqabileyo ishiwo ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye ulusu luqiniswe. I-subconscious iphakame ngaphezu kwengqondo, kwaye ngoko umntu oqhelekileyo ukhetha umfazi onempilo kwintsapho ezayo. Njengowesimo samabhinqa amade, akuthethi ukuba abafazi abancinci abathandi abantu. Intombazana encinci ifuna ukukhusela, kwaye oku kugazini lamadoda.
Kwaye kule ngqungquthela ayipheli:
- abafazi ababuthathaka njengamadoda. Ewe, abaninzi abantu bayabethwa ngobuthakathaka obuthile, kodwa bengabikho. Awukwazi ukuba uphahla i-bulb, kodwa ukungaqiniseki kuyo yonke into kunokusongela abanokukhethwa;
- ukugqoka ngesondo - ukuqhuba i-crazy. Mhlawumbi, kodwa akunjalo. Amadoda amaninzi alahlekile xa intombazana igugile kakhulu. Kwaye ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba unakekele ingqiqo yakho, ukuba i-decollete ibaluleke kakhulu kunomnini wayo;
- Abasetyhini abanengqiqo bayesaba. Akunjalo. Ukuba sibiza abantu abancinci abaye bawela uphawu lwama-25 ubudala, ngoko baninzi banomdla ekufumaneni intombazana yokwakha intsapho. Kule meko, ukunyamezela kwakho kunokuba ngumqobo kumngano obalulekileyo;
- Amadoda athetha amantombazana amnandi. Enye inkolelo, eyazalwa yintengiso. Ukuba unomdla kakhulu, unobungozi obubonakala kuye ungathandeki kwaye (ngokuzenzekelayo).
Kodwa ukufaneleka, okuphantse kuhlawule ngexabiso:
- ukunyaniseka . Lo mgangatho ukhwaza abantu, kuquka amadoda;
- bubele. Kulabo abancinci bangamadoda anengqondo yexhoba. Ngaba uyayifuna loo nto?
- ncumo. Mhlawumbi kunzima ukufumana umhlobiso ophawulekayo ngokubhekiselele ubuso bomfazi;
- ukukwazi ukuphulaphula nokuva. Uninzi lwabasetyhini luyakuthanda ukuthetha, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha enye yale mgangatho inelisekile kwaye inomdla umntu;
- bhinqa . Akukho gqabaza.
Kufanelekile ukukhankanya ukuba ngamanye amaxesha umfazi akanakuqonda ukuba uthanda umntu. Kwaye kaninzi oku kuphazamiseka yiinkomfa zethu. Khawucinge ngakumbi: ukuba ibhinqa lithanda umntu, ngoko ke unonondi unika iimpawu. Ngoko, umntu unokuziphepha ukujongana nokujonga. Ufunda ngasese. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, uya kuzama ukuzihlukanisa nesihlwele: nokuba uya kuvuya kunye nomsindo, okanye uya kuvala. Ngokubanzi, kuya kwenza konke okufana nathi.