Ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka - iingcamango ezinjengezinto ezifanayo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukunyaniseka kukugwema ukukhohliswa kunye nobuqhetseba ngokumalunga nabanye abantu, kwaye ukunyaniseka ngenye yezinto zokunyaniseka ezenza ukuba kubekho ukungqubuzana phakathi kwemvakalelo yangempela, ukubonakaliswa kwazo kunye nokuthetha kwabo. Sifuna ezi zimpawu zimbini kwabanye abantu, nangona kaninzi thina ngokwethu ngezinye iinkhathi singabikho.
Ukunyaniseka kwintsebenziswano
Ngoku, xa ezininzi zisetyenziselwa ukuphosa amagama emoyeni, ingxaki yokunyaniseka ibaluleke kakhulu. Kunzima ukuthembela kwiintsapho zakho xa usubonile ubuxoki. Nangona kunjalo, ngumgaqo wokunyaniseka okukuvumela ukuba wakhe ubuhlobo kunye nabathandekayo ngokuchanekileyo, kwi-trust. Ukuba ubuncinane ubukhohlise umntu, kuya kufuneka ulale ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ugubuze ubuxoki bakho, kwaye ngenxa yoko, amathuba okubanjwa kwento enyanyekayo. Ukunyaniseka komntu okwenza abanye bamphathe ngokuzithemba nangokuhlonela-kwaye, njengoko kwaziwa, ukungabikho kwezi zimbini ziyakonakalisa kakubi ubudlelwane nomntu othandekayo, kunye nomhlobo osondeleyo kunye nabazali.
Umbuzo onzima uvela xa uqonda ukuba ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka akufaki kuluhlu lweempawu ezintle zomntu wakho, okanye omnye umntu osondeleyo. Ukukhohlisa ngumkhwa, kwaye abantu abanqwenela ukulala bahlala behlala behleli njalo nakwiimeko apho kunokwenzeka ukuthetha inyaniso. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunzima kakhulu, kuphela ngeengxoxo ezininzi kwimiphefumlo kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo nangona kunjalo ngenye indlela ukulungisa le meko, kodwa kukho imeko xa umntu efuna ukuncedwa kwengcali yengqondo.
Umnqweno wokuxoka amanga, ukunyaniseka kwenyaniso, ukufihla inyaniso yintlanzi phambi kokuba abanye baphendule inyaniso, kwaye ngoko ukuqonda ukuba isenzo asibi (mhlawumbi kutheni ufuna ukutshintsha ngamazwi?).
Imizekelo yokunyaniseka nokunyaniseka
Ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka kuhamba rhoqo. Ukuba umntu uhamba phambi kwakho kunye nebhilikhi enkulu okanye isikhwama siphepha esikhwameni sakho, usoloko unokhetho - thumela ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba ufumane okanye uthinte umntu kwaye umbuyisele ekulahlekelweni. Kulula ukuqagela ukuba umntu othembekileyo uya kwenza ntoni.
Omnye umzekelo wokunyaniseka kukuzaliseka kwezithembiso. Ukuba uthembisa kuphela kwaye ungenzi nto, awukwazi ukuthathwa njengomntu onokwethenjelwa. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba amazwi akho ayinakuthenjwa, ukunyaniseka akusiyo into yakho.
Ukunyaniseka kuyimo sengqondo kumntu, apho iingcinga zakho malunga naye kunye nokuziphatha kwakho kwangempela kuhambelana. Umntu othembekileyo akayi kuvumela ukunyamezela emehlweni aze athulule udaka emhlane.