Psychology of Friendship

Kutheni abantu beqala ukuba ngabahlobo? Ngaba ngaba bantu ngokukodwa, kwaye kungekhona abanye? Yintoni edibanisa nabo?

Ukuze uphendule, kubonakala ngathi, uluntu - uluntu lwabantu, iimfuno, umnqweno ongenamdla wokungazintoni - obonakala ngathi yingqondo yengqondo ekuqalekeni. Kodwa, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ukuba ubhekise ngokungqongqo, yonke into ijika enye indlela.

Yintoni i-psychology yobudlelwane?

Ubomi bobubomi, sihlala sihlangabezana nemibono engapheliyo kwaye ingqubuzanayo, xa abantu abaneengqondo ezahlukeneyo zekhadi bengenakuhlala ngaphandle komnye. Omnye uchwephesha, umzabalazo obona kuphela ukuqiqisa kuyo yonke into kwaye unikezela ukuvavanyelwa kwimeko ethile, enye inothando, into engathandekiyo, inkondlo ... kodwa, njengoko bethetha, "musa ukuchitha amanzi". Kutheni? Kukho uluvo lokuba kulo mzekelo isizathu esibalulekileyo sokuba nobuhlobo babo sichasene ngqo! Bobabili bafumana enye into abangenayo, nokuba yintoni abafuna ukuyifumana, kodwa njengoko besithi, uThixo akazange anike ... Kule nto abazange baphumelele kubomi babo, bangazivumeli ukuthetha kwintlanganiso ... Baxubana ngomnye nomnye isizathu, abanako ukudala uluvo olulodwa malunga nantoni na, kodwa bakhonywa ekudibanisaneni, ngokukodwa, ubuncinci!

Umzekelo oqhelekileyo wobudlelwane obunjalo ubuhlobo bukaYersh noKaras kwiintetho ezidumileyo zikaSaltykov-Shchedrin.

Umzekelo odlulileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubhekisela ngaphezulu kwindoda, ngoko kuthiwa "ubungqondo" ubungane, osengqondweni esekelwe ekutshintshiseni ulwazi oluchanileyo kunye nokuvavanya kwalo, oko kukuthi, ubuncinci beemvakalelo , kunye nenani eliphezulu ...

Ingqondo yengqondo yabesifazane besini! Fuck lo logic! Esihogweni ngeenyaniso! Imvakalelo kunye neengqondo zi-alpha kunye ne-omega ye-psychology yabasetyhini! Kwaye ubuhlobo phakathi kwabo buqhankqalazo lweemvakalelo kunye nemibala ye-halftones. Abafazi ngeeyure sele bekulungele ukuxoxa ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kubo, into enokuthi umntu akaze ayiqwalasele ebomini!

Umzekelo oqhelekileyo wobuhlobo obunjalo nguMdaka omnandi kuyo yonke into kwaye uNdada uyingumnandi ovela kwiMimoya Efile yaGogol.