Iingcamango zengxabano

Into efana neengxabano (ngentsingiselo ebanzi) yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yombutho wobomi. Akukhathaleli nje kuphela ubomi bezinto eziphilayo. Ingquzulwano kubantu, kwizilwanyana kunye nezityalo - imeko yemvelo yophuhliso lwabo. Kwintlalo yoluntu, imbambano iyinkuthazo yophuhliso loluntu.

Okwangoku, iingxabano zifundiswa yizo zenzululwazi njengentlalo kunye neengqondo . Ngokomgaqo, kunokuthi ingxabano isandul 'i-science ehlukeneyo, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ayikwazi ukuthathwa njengengingqi eyazimeleyo yolwazi.

Icandelo lezesayensi lombuzo

Ngengqiqo yezesayensi yaseNtshona Yurophu, ezininzi iingcinga zeengxaki zengqondo zanamhlanje zenziwa. Iinzululwazi ezimelela iindawo zefilosofi ezahlukileyo, izikhokelo ezahlukahlukeneyo kwengqondo kunye neentlalo, zineengcamango ezihlukeneyo kwaye zinika umbono wazo kunye nenkcazo yale ngxaki, kunye neendlela zokulungisa iingxabano.

Kwimeko yezifundo zokuziphatha kwezifundo kwimpikiswano, iimpawu zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo zachongwa. Kule mihlaba, enye yeengcamango zanamhlanje zokuziphatha komntu kwimpikiswano yavela (kubonakala ngathi imbono ephakanyisiweyo ifikelele ngakumbi kwinyaniso).

Ngokuziphatha kwiimeko zokungqubuzana

Kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabalulekanga imodeli engundoqo yokuziphatha komntu kwimpikiswano.

1. Ukwakha . Esi sifundo sibonisa ukunyaniseka kumbambano, ukuvuleka kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, ukunyamezela nokuzithiba, uzama ukulungisa (ukuxazulula) ukuxabana; i-laconic kunye nechanekileyo kwizenzo kunye neengxelo.
2. Ukutshabalalisa . Esi sifundo sizama ukuphucula ukuxabana, ngoko ke sihlala sidimaza iqabane, sihlalutya kakubi umchasi; ibonisa ukusola kumdlali, ayinamathele kwimimiselo yokuziphatha, eqhelekileyo kuluntu.
3. Umququzeleli . Isihloko sibonisa ukungasebenzi, ukungahambelani kunye nokuthambekela kokwenza izivumelwano; kwiimvavanyo, izigwebo, ukuziphatha, kukho ukungahambi kakuhle; uzama ukuphepha ukulungisa iingxaki ezinzima.

Indlela yokuziphatha?

Enyanisweni, nganye yale mizekelo yendlela yokuziphatha kwimpikiswano ixhomekeke yinkalo yongquzulwano, uhlobo lwesimo, ukubaluleka kobudlelwano bobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, kunye nokuqhelaniswa kweengqondo kunye nokuziphatha ngokubaluleka kwabafundi. Kwinqanaba elithile, iipatheni zokuziphatha zabathathi-nxaxheba zibonisa izicwangciso ezithile zesifundo ngasinye.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba imodeli yokuziphatha ephumelele kakhulu (nakwindawo yokujonga ngayo) iyakha.

Ingozi yokubonisa Isimo sokumelana nxamnye nxamnye nento yokuba inokubangela ukwandisa ulwaphulo lomdlali, kwaye kwezinye iimeko - ukukhupha umonakalo. Okokuthi, inyaniso, indawo yokuvumelana nayo ingabonwa njengonakalisayo. Kuhluke kwizinto ezingonakalisi kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, akubona bonke kwaye akusoloko bengaqondakali, isikhundla sokubambisana sinokudlala indima efanelekileyo ukuba ukuphikisana okubangelwa yimpikiswano ayibalulekanga.

Ukususela kwimibono yongquzulwano olungapheliyo, inzulu kakhulu kwaye inomdla yi-psychoanalysis (kuzo zonke iifom zaso zanamhlanje), i-psychology psychology kunye ne-gestalt psychology.