Namhlanje, ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo ngokukhula komntu kudla kakhulu. Ba tyelelwa ngabemi bezentengiselwano, abafundi, kwaye ngokubanzi, bonke abanomdla ekuphuculeni ukusebenza komntu. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuya kwiintlobo ezinje, ngokukodwa kuba zingabonakali nhlobo. Unokuzilungiselela ngokwakho uqeqesho olufanelekileyo lokukhula komntu siqu, ukuba unomnqweno onjalo.
Iinjongo kunye neenjongo zalo naluphi na uqeqesho lokukhula kobuqu zihlala ziguquka ukuze kuncede umntu alungise ukuzithemba kwabo, ukuqonda iimpawu zabo kunye neengxaki zabo, ukuqonda amandla kunye nobuthathaka, ukudibanisa ukuphumeza iziphumo ezinkulu. Nangona kunjalo, kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba uqeqesho alusebenzi, kwaye iziphumo zokuqeqesha ngokwabo azibonakali. Kukho izizathu ezininzi: nokuba imisebenzi ephakanyisiweyo ayifanelekanga, okanye awunakulanga ngokukodwa ekuphunyezweni kwayo.
Cinga ukuqeqeshwa okusebenzayo ekuqeqesheni ukukhula komntu:
Ukuzivocavoca "Ndikho kwikamva"
Thatha iphepha le-albhamu kwaye, ngaphandle kokuzisola ixesha kunye neepensele, zizenze kwikamva - njengokuba ufuna ukuzibona. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unomsebenzi onzima wokudweba, kufuneka ubhale phantsi yonke into. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukubona ngokucacileyo kwaye uzive eli lizayo, njengokungathi sele lenzekile okanye uhanjiswe kuyo.
Ukuzivocavoca "Ukuzimela"
Lo msebenzi ungenziwa kuphela wodwa! Yima phambi kwesibuko esikhulu kwindawo edibeneyo kwaye usitshele ngawe, zonke zakho iimpumelelo eziphambili kunye neziganeko ezahlukeneyo. Kule meko, kufuneka ubonise inani eliphezulu leemvakalelo: uvuyo, inzala, intshaba. Ngamnye wale mvakalelo kufuneka kusebenze ngokwahlukileyo. Oku ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha imizuzu engama-10 (hhayi 2-3).
Ukuzivocavoca "Izinyathelo"
Lo msebenzi uncedo ngakumbi ngokusemncinci, kuba ngeli xesha kubaluleke kakhulu ukugqiba ukuzithemba. Dweba ephepheni kwitebhisi, eyiyo iminyathelo eyi-10, kwaye wena ngokwakho kwelinye lamanyathelo ale nqanaba. Uzifumana phi? Emva kokuba usugqibile lo msebenzi, ungafunda umphumo: ukusuka kumanyathelo a-1-4 - unesidima sokuzithoba, u-5-7 - oqhelekileyo, u-8-10 - uphakamileyo. Ukuphinda usebenze lo msebenzi, zama nje ukuzakhela kwindawo efanelekileyo, kodwa ukuba uzive.
Ukuzivocavoca "Yintoni enenhlanhla ngayo"
Ngenxa yokusebenza okunjalo, uya kufuna umhlobo, kodwa ukuba ungenayo, unokuzenza ngokwakho. Lo msebenzi uza kukuhlawula nge-positive kwaye udibanise nezindlela ezakhayo zokucinga. Ukuba ngaba babini, xelela omnye ngomnye, nini na kwinto enenhlanhla ebomini. Ukuba iqabane lingekho - xelela ukuba uyibonakalise kwisibuko. Iimpawu ezinomdla ozikhumbulayo, zilungele kuwe.
Ukuzivocavoca "Ukubandakanywa kwesishukumisayo esihle"
Lo msebenzi ulula kangangokuba unokwenziwa ngokufanelekileyo kwindawo yokusebenzela. Hlaziya, hlalani ngokukhululekile, gubungela amehlo akho. Cinga ngako, kwaye yintoni eyenza ubomi bakho bungavamile, unomdla kuwe? Yintoni eyenza uvuyo? Ziziphi abantu okanye iziganeko
Ezi zifundo zokufunda ezi-5 ezilula kufuneka zenziwe rhoqo ngamaxesha, kuyinqweneleka - enye yazo yenza imihla ngemihla. Ngale ndlela, uya kukwazi ukwenza uvavanyo oluchanekileyo, qalisa ukucinga ngendlela efanelekileyo, uzive ungumntu onwabileyo kwaye, ngokubanzi, utshintshe kwiindlela ezakhayo zokucinga. I-ray yabo bonke ukugxila kwiindlela zokuzivocavoca "ndiza kwixesha elizayo" kwaye "Into endiyithandayo ngayo", yiyo eyabeka isiphumo esihle kuzo zonke izenzo.