Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho umnqweno wokufunda ukufunda iingcamango zabantu abakujikelezile, ukufumana iimpendulo zemibuzo enomdla, ukufumanisa oko umntu othile acinga.
Kulo mbuzo ukuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde ukufunda ezinye iingcamango zabantu, siphendula ngokuqinisekileyo: ewe, kunokwenzeka. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka wenze yonke imizamo kwaye uqeqeshe rhoqo. Eli nqaku liza kukuxelela indlela onokufunda ngayo ukufunda iingcamango.
Indlela yokufunda ukufunda ezinye iingcamango zabantu?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, elowo wethu weva malunga nomxholo othi " ukubethelela " -kukwazi ukufunda iingcamango zomnye umntu. Kwaye ekubeni eli gama likhona, kuthetha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukufunda ukufunda iingqondo. Ngenxa yoko, akubalulekile ukuba ube nezakhono ezizodwa, njengommiselo, le nkqubo idla ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubuchule obungaphezu kwendalo buvusa kumntu kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo: Ngokomzekelo, ekuhloleni umfundi ukhumbula ngokungazelelwe into ayengazange ayifundise yona, kwimeko ethile yakuva ulwazi. Okanye, kwimeko engqongqo, ngamazwi angaqhelekanga aqala ukuva. Iimeko ezinjalo zibonisa ukuba umntu unokufunda ukufunda iingcamango zabanye abantu. Ngoku into ebaluleke kakhulu kukufumanisa oku kunokwenzeka.
Yintoni omele uyenze ukuze ufunde indlela yokufunda iingcamango zabanye? Ukufunda kweengcamango kukutshintshiselana ngolwazi lwamandla. Ewe, sonke siyazi ukuba ihlabathi liva iingcamango zethu kwaye zizinto eziphathekayo. Ukuqhubela phambili kule nto, kuvela ukuba nayiphi na ingcamango yokuba naliphi na umntu uba yinxalenye yenkalo yamandla jikelele jikelele.
Iziganeko ziye zabonakaliswa ukuba kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomhlaba, abantu abangaziwayo baphupha iphupha elifanayo, okwakubonwe yiziganeko ezizayo. Kuyafana okufanayo malunga nokuthiwa ngamaphupho esiprofeto. Ngoko ke, ukuba unquma ukufunda ukufunda iingcamango zabanye abantu, kuyimfuneko, okokuqala, ukubamba iingcamango zomntu othize kwi-flow flow of information.
Silungiselele iingcebiso ezininzi zokukunceda uqonde indlela yokufunda ukufunda iingcamango.
- Ukuze kuphuhliswe eli lwazi, kuyimfuneko ukufunda indlela yokugxila kunye nokuphumla. Ukuncedisa ukuza kucamngca, i-yoga, ukuphumula kunye nezinye iindlela zokuphefumula .
- Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde indlela yokulawula yakho ingqalelo kwaye uyifake kwisimo sokuzola. Musa ukumangaliswa xa ufika kwisigqibo sokuba nakwiimeko ezikhululekile uqhubeka ucinga. Umsebenzi olandelayo kukulawula iingcinga zakho. Oku kungenziwa ngokudala entloko yakho "ukuthula konke". Zama ukuvimbela yonke imizamo yokuqonda ukuze wenze ingcinga entsha kwaye ungacingi. Ngokuqeqeshwa rhoqo kunye nexesha unokucima iingcamango zakho.
Xa ufunda ukukhulula isidalwa, qhubela phambili ekusebenziseni izinto ezinzima. Okokuqala, lungisa igumbi apho kungekho mntu unokukuphazamisa. Kumele ukuba ikhutshwe kwizandi ezingafaniyo kunye nomsindo.
- Thetha nomthandayo. Uya kucinga ukucinga ngesiganeko okanye umzuzu oye wahlangana naye. Eyona nto iphambili -
akufanele athethe oko ucinga ngako. Ulungele ukuzihlukanisa nabanye kunye nokuzibetha kwiimeko ezikhululekile. - Emva kokudala ukuthula okupheleleyo engqondweni, zama ukuva oko iqabane lakho licinga. Ukuba ulawula ukugxininisa, izahlulo zincinci ziya kuqala ukuvela entloko yakho ezingayi kuhambelana neengcamango zakho. Uvavanyo lunokugqitywa xa uqaphela ukuba uyabona imifanekiso kunye neengcamango zomlingane wakho.
Umsebenzi ololo hlobo kufuneka uphindwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukususela kwimizamo yokuqala okungenakwenzeka ukuba ufunde ukufunda iingcamango, kodwa ngokunyamezela nangomonde, unokukwazi ukufezekisa oko ufuna.