Unokumelana njani nokunyanzeliswa kwengqondo?

Ubuchule obubaluleke kakhulu bokukhusela ingcamango yombono kuyimfuneko ukuze ubeke ngokufanelekileyo uluntu kwaye umelane nokunyanzeliswa kwengqondo. Ukuze uhloniphe abanye, kufuneka ufumane uluvo lwakho, lugcine ngokuqiniseka. Ukuba ungumntu ongeyiphikisanayo owaziyo ukufumana ukunyaniseka - kuhle kakhulu! Kodwa ukuba uyavumelana nento enyanzelekile ukuba uyenze ngenxa yokuba ukwesaba ukuthetha, oku kukukhokelela kwimiphumo engafunekiyo. Umzekelo, ungathuli, gcina intukuthelo ngaphakathi kwakho, ngoko unokuba neengxaki zengqondo.

Kubalulekile ukuqonda isizathu esibalulekileyo sokuzihlukanisa. Mhlawumbi ezinye iimeko ezibuhlungu ebuntwaneni zishiye impembelelo engalunganga ekwakheni ubuntu bakho. Kwale mzuzwana, kwaye ebomini kuyachaphazela ukuziphatha kwakho.

Uxinzelelo lweengqondo kunye nokuchasana

Nceda nceda!

1. Musa ukungaqiniseki.
2. Khumbula ukuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokubona kwakhe.
3. Ngokuzithemba nangokuzenzele ukulivakalisa.
4. Ukuthobeka ngumgaqo wokuqala wokukhutshwa komzimba.
5. Musa ukuhlambalaza. Thetha ngolu hlobo.
6. Ungayihoyi indawo yendawo. Uya kuba ukhululekile ukugcina umgama.
7. Mamela ngenyameko kumnxibelelwano. Kwaye ngokubanzi, ukwazi ukuphulaphula.
8. Nika iingxabano.
9. Ukukhokelwa ngqiqo, kodwa kungekhona imvakalelo.

Ukukhuselwa kwingcinezelo yengqondo

Kukho uluvo olusisiseko esilungileyo ukukhusela. Abaninzi bayavumelani nale nto. Kuza kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuhlaselwa, kodwa, njengento ehlonelanayo, ukufumanisa into engafanelekanga bobabini. Mhlawumbi awuqondi kakuhle. Kwaye kuthiwa wonke umntu uvikela umbono wakhe.

Ukujamelana nokunyanzeliswa kwengqondo

Okokuqala, qaphela injongo yangempela ye-manipulator yakho. Uze wenze ngokuphikisana, oko kukuthi, uqhubela ekubeni "umchasi" wakho akazalisekisi izicwangciso zakhe. Ngokwenene. Kodwa qaphela, ungagqithisi ukuze ungacingi "utshaba".

Indlela yokuphelisa ingcinezelo yengqondo? Umntu oye wagqiba kwelokuba ilungelo lokulawulwa ngokufihlakeleyo abanye baya kuvikela kuphela iimfuno zabo. Unako ukwenza ngale ndlela:

1. Cebiso. Uyaqonda ukuba umchasi uwela umda kwaye ubeka ngokucacileyo into efanelekileyo kuye. Ukuba oku akuhambisani nani - bathetha ngokuqinisekileyo oku. Xa imiqathango yakho engavumelaniyo, nikela i-compromise. Ukuba unqatshelwe ukuya kukudibana nawe, phuma kwingxoxo.
2. Ukuqaphela. Okungenokwenzeka ukuba, "umhlaseli", ukuba sele usele iinjongo, akayi kuwisa izandla ngokukhawuleza. Ngelishwa, uyakubona njengexhoba. Kwaye kufuneka uphumelele!
3. Ukunyamezela. Awuvumelani nemimiselo yayo, unganikeli. Yithi "Hayi", kwaye utshintshe isihloko kwintetho. Zama ukungabuyeli kwisihloko esidala, ngaphandle kokuba ulungelelaniso olulinganayo.
4. Iingongelo. Beka iingcamango kwiishalafu - qaphela ingozi yengozi. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba umgcini wecala Ukwazi ukuqonda oku!

Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwiimeko ezinjalo, abantu bafuna ukubonisa konke ukusetyenziswa kwabo, kwaye babonise ngokucacileyo umonakalo. Oku kwenziwa ukwenzela ukubonisa ukuphakama kwabo kwabanye. Kodwa apha unokulungiselela ukuhlaselwa kwangaphambili kwaye ucinge ngamanye iimpendulo kwimibandela enokwenzeka. Musa ukuyithatha ngokubalulekileyo. Yaye ungabonakali ukuba kukukhathaza. Vumela umdlali odlala naye!

Ungakuphepha njani ingcinezelo yengqondo?

Ingcinezelo yengqondo ingagwenywa kuphela yindlela enye eqinisekisiweyo. Ngaloo ndlela, ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, ukubonakalisa ngamandla, njengomdlali ofanelekileyo. Ukuba lwakho utshaba kunye neengcamango zakho azizange ziphakame ukuba uzuze kwiindlela zakhe. Ingcinezelo yengqondo, njengomdlalo.

Ukunyamekela nokugatya ziindlela ezilungileyo. Yonke imizamo kufuneka yenziwe ukuba ingakuvumeli ukuba ikusebenze. Ukubeka nje, musa ukuthakazelisa kule "shishini".