I-Mediocrity ngumgangatho womntu onelisekile encinci. Akanayo iinjongo ezikhethekileyo kunye neenjongo, ubhukuda kunye nokuhamba kwaye uyavuya kakhulu. Loo mntu wenza kuphela oko kufunwa kwabanye kunye neemeko, kodwa akukho. Akabi kakhulu, kodwa kulungile kuye akwanele. Lo mntu uqhelekileyo kwaye akanamdla. Yintoni omele uyenze ukuze ungabi ngumntu onjalo? Siza kuxela ngale nto.
I ntsi ngiselo
Kwiisichazili le ngcamango ichazwa njenge-mediocrity, engenamsebenzi. Isetyenziselwa ukufanelekela umntu, kodwa ingabhekisela ekuhlolweni kwesenzo. Ngokomzekelo, umdlalo we-actor uyingqamaniso, okanye incwadi edibeneyo, oko kukuthi, akukho xabiso. Unokutshintsha igama elithi mediocrity kunye neentetho-grey, i-mediocrity, izinga lesibini.
I-Mediocrity njengengozi yentlalo
Namhlanje le mfanelo isasazeka kakhulu kangangokuba nayiphi na umntu onomgangatho wokunyanzela ngaphezu komyinge ubonakala ngathi unengqondo. Sinciphisa amathuba ethu, sifaka izithintelo, ukususela kumntla - ukunganyaniseki, ukusuka ekungeneni kwezantsi, ukusuka kwintshona - iingcinga malunga nexesha elidlulileyo, ukusuka empuma-ukungabi nhloso. Ubomi buye baba grey, kwaye sizama ukufana nabantu bonke. Sizingqongileyo ngokwemimiselo esisetyenziswe ngabanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo sibophelela le miqathango kungekuphela kwethu, kodwa kubantu abasijikelezile. Wonke umntu ongeyena wethu uyasuswa. Ubumpofu bubi, umntu uyisiphukuphuku kwaye akakwazi ukufumana, ubutyebi bububi - ngokuqinisekileyo umnini wezindlu, i-yachts kunye neemoto ezibizileyo zibiwe kubantu. Ngoko siphila, silinganisa zonke phantsi kwekhefu enye.
Ngoko kutheni abantu abaninzi banelisekile ngokuxhomekeka? Impendulo kule nto ilele phezulu. Sivame ukuziqhathanisa nabanye, kodwa kufuneka sizithelekise namhlanje namhlanje kunye nathi sibone oko sifikelele kwimihla, inyanga, unyaka. Kule meko, akusayi kuba nesidingo sokukhuphisana nabanye abantu, kodwa siya kukhuphisana nobuqili bethu kunye nokuxhomekeka. Unelisekile ukuba unelisekile ngemigangatho ephantsi, lixesha lokusekela injongo uze ulwele. Ngamnye wethu uhlukile. Yaye wonk 'ubani unayo iitalente ezifihliweyo. Ukuba zifihliwe, kuyimfuneko ukuyiveza kwaye ziphuhlise. Ukuphuhlisa iitalente zakhe, umntu uzijonga ukuba uyimfuneko ebantwini kwaye uzibeka phambi kweenjongo ezintsha.
Ungayinqoba njani intshaba ngegama le-mediocrity?
- Iphupha! Ubomi ngaphandle kwephupha awunanto kwaye akukho njongo.
- Yiba yedwa. Ukunyuka kwiindawo ezinzulu zomphefumlo wakho, cinga ngezinto othanda ukuzenza. Fumana indlela yakho ekhethekileyo yokufezekisa injongo.
- Ukufezekisa iinjongo nangona yonke into. Musa ukucima indlela, nangona kukho ubunzima kunye nemingcipheko.
- Yiba nembono yakho. Nokuba ingafani nomntu wonke, yima.
- Mamela omnye umntu. Kodwa kungekhona ukuze ulandele, kodwa ukuze uyenze owakho. Ukulandela uluvo lomntu, uhamba ngendlela yabo kwaye uphile ubomi babo.
- Phuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela. Makube mnandi kwaye ukhululekile, kodwa ubomi bukudlula. Ulahlekelwa yithuba lokuphumelela impumelelo.
- Ukubamba wonke amathuba
zibonakalise. - Phila njengokuba uhlala umhla wokugqibela wobomi bakho.
- Thatha inyathelo. Kwanele ukwenza kuphela oko abanye abakulindele kuwe.
Zisebenzise ezi zicwangciso kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba iminyaka emininzi abazange baphile ubomi babo, baye bazama ukulahleka ngobunzima obuqhelekileyo, beba grey kwaye bangabonakali. Yiba nguwe. Unganeliswa yimigangatho ephantsi. Ungesabi ukuba uya kuhanjiswa ngeemfuno ezingaphezulu. Abayikwesa. Kuya kufuneka wenze imizamo engakumbi yokuphulukana namanqanaba alula, akukho bantu abalulekileyo. Kodwa kuya kukuthatha kwizinga elitsha lobomi. Uya kuphucula kwaye uphumelele!