Njalo veki, ngoMvulo sithembisa ukuqala ubomi obutsha. Omnye unquma ukungena kwimidlalo, umntu-ukuba ahambe ekudleni, kunye nomntu ukuba enze ukuphucula. NgoMvulo udlulayo kwaye sifumana izikhulu zezizathu ezithintele ekuphunyezweni zonke izicwangciso zethu. Sifanele silinde uMvulo olandelayo, kungekhona ukuqala ubomi obutsha ngoLwesibili. Okwangoku, silindele ukuqala kweveki entsha ukuphakama nokuphazamiseka, kutheni sivuka ekuseni, ngathi sibetha ubusuku bonke, kutheni ungafuni ukwenza yonke imini, kutheni zonke izicwangciso zethu ziphulaphule ezinye iimeko ezingalindelekanga?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo ilula: ebomini bethu akukho myalelo ocacileyo. Sisoloko singenzi nto esiyidingayo kwaye ngexesha elingafanelekanga. Ukuze uqale ubomi obutsha awudingi ukulinda ngoMvulo, kufuneka usebenze ngoku ngoku. Indlela yokuphila enempilo kunye nomsebenzi wemihla ngemihla ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo bonke abafazi. Ngako oko, ukuba uphawule yonke imicimbi yakho, awuyikuzicwangcisa nje ixesha lakho, kodwa kwakhona uphila, uphumelele kwaye uphumelele.
Ubomi obutsha buqala ngokucwangcisa. Ixesha locwangciso lubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bethu. Kwenzeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba sijikeleze njenge-squirrel kwisondo, kwaye isiphumo sinjalo. Ukulwa nokulahlwa kwexesha kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokwenza imihla ngemihla. Emva kokuba uyiqalile yonke ibhizinisi lakho kunye nemisebenzi, unokukrazula ukungabalulekiyo okungadingekile kunye nokuhlanganiswa, ungazibuza rhoqo into oyilibeleyo okanye ungenayo ixesha lokuyenza. Umhla wakho uya kuvelisa kwaye uzalise.
Yintoni okufanele ibe yinto yemihla ngemihla?
Umyalelo kufuneka ulinganise, uzaliswe kwaye ufanelekile. Bhala yonke into oceba ukuyenza, ngokukodwa kumzuzu. Ungalibali ukubeka uqeqesho lwezemidlalo kwisicwangciso. Ziyimfuneko kuphela kwimpilo yansuku zonke. Bhala phantsi kuphela into ebalulekileyo kuwe kwaye ungacwangcisi ngaphaya kwamandla akho. Ukuba uceba imihla ngemihla ngeeyure kwaye ungayinyamezeli, ke kukho ithuba lokuba uya kubashiya ngokupheleleyo. Ukongeza kwimiqathango yezemidlalo kunye nokuzonwabisa, yonke inkqubo yesibini yowesifazane kufuneka ibandakanye ukunakekelwa komzimba, iinwele kunye nesikhumba. Musa ukulibala ngokutyelela rhoqo ugqirha.
Indlela yokwenza ishedyuli yemihla ngemihla
Kukho imimiselo emele ilandelwe xa isenza isicwangciso senkqubo. Umgaqo osisiseko kunomntu ngamnye. Ngamnye wethu ufuna ixesha elithile lokulala, ukuphumla, ukusebenza. Yonke into ithathwa ingqalelo: ubukho bentsapho, umsebenzi, isifundo.
Umsebenzi wemihla ngemihla yomntu kufuneka wenziwe njalo ngokuhlwa kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo kufuneka lufakwe kuso. Xa ucwangcisa ngomso, hlawula ingqalelo umsebenzi. Akukhona nje ngokukwenza imisebenzi yomsebenzi. Kuquka yonke imisebenzi: ukucoca, ukunakekelwa kwezingane, ukupheka. Emva kokucwangcisa umsebenzi, ungalibali malunga nabanye. Sonke sihlala ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, abanye abantu babukela okuthandayo
Hlela yonke imisebenzi yakho, ugxininise ukubaluleka kwayo. Imisebenzi ephambili ingakhethwa kumbala othile. Umzekelo, gxi ninisa imisebenzi ebalulekileyo kunye ephuthumayo ebomvu, ngokubalulekanga kangako - i-orange, imisebenzi ngaphandle kokuba ungayenza nantoni na.
Cwangcisa iveki yakho. Khetha ubuncinane olunye usuku ngeveki ukuba ungenzi nto, zixakeke ngalolu suku ngezinto ezizithandayo: udibana nabahlobo, tyelela abazali bakho, hamba nabantwana kwi-zoo.
Fanisa iintsapho kunye nabahlobo bakho ngoku ukuba unesicwangciso esicacileyo kwaye ungayiphula kuphela kwiimeko ezixakeka.