Iintloni yinto ebonakalayo yomntu onokuthi abe nobomi obuhle kunye nombi. Abanye abazi le ntliziyo, kodwa ezinye zidlula kuphela ngobudala. Kodwa, umntu unokuyeka njani ukuba neentloni aze abe nokuzithemba? Uyabona ukuba kukho amaxesha apho uziva unzima nakumntu omdala, ukuba ufuna ukuthetha nomfokazi kwaye unokufumana okuthile okufundayo kuye.
Ewe, ukuvakalelwa okunjalo kunokuchaphazela impilo ebomini kunye nangomsebenzi . Ngenxa yokwesaba, umntu akanako ukuqonda oko akucwangcisile kwaye wonke amathuba okuphumelela ebomini aya kuncitshiswa.
Indlela yokuba ube mhle kwaye uziqiniseke kwaye ulahlekelwe yintloni?
Ukungakhuselekanga kuquka ukunyaniseka. Njengomthetho, abantu abanjalo banokuzithemba phantsi kwaye bahlala ngamava onke, yintoni abanokuyenza ngayo kubo bonke abakujikelezile. Ngamanye amaxesha ikhula ibe yinkimbinkimbi kwaye ivaliwe.
Ingxaki enjalo iwachaphazela abo bantu, njengomntwana, bawa phantsi kohleko lwabo ontanga kunye nabantu abadala. Ngenxa yokubonakala okunjalo, umntu unokukwazi ukuzicoca ngokupheleleyo, ehlala efumana intloni kunye neentloni.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuphelisa intloni?
Indlela yokuba nesibindi nokuzithemba, unokuxelela inani elikhulu leengqondo zeengqondo ezicebisa ukuba zisebenze rhoqo, zithuthukise ukuzithemba, zijolise ekufezeni injongo yazo.
- Into yokuqala efunekayo kukubona ukuba yintoni eyenza ukuba neentloni kwaye ukhumbule loo mizuzu xa lo mgangatho uthintela okufunayo. Ukuba idibeneyo, umzekelo, ngokunyaniseka okweqile, ngoko ukulahlekelwa isisindo kunokuba yinkxalabo enhle kakhulu ekugqibeleni uhlazo.
- Ukuze ugweme ukwesaba kunye neentloni zokunxibelelana nabantu, kunokwenzeka ukuba, ngokuqhelekileyo kunokwenzeka, ukuthetha nabantu abangabaziyo kwisitrato: buza ukuba yintoni ixesha, indlela yokufikelela esibhedlele, njl. Oko kukuthi, ukuphumelela kwindlela "edibeneyo" isasebenza.
- Eyona nto inceda ukutshintsha imeko. Okungakumbi phakathi kwalabo unxibelelana nabantu abathembekileyo, bhetele. Umzekelo omhle ungcono kuneengcebiso eziliwaka.
- Zama ukwandisa ukuzithemba kunye nokuvuselela okulungileyo. Bambalwa abantu abathandekayo, bethandwa ngabantu, kwaye kwimeko apho, musa ukuhlaziswa nguwe ngokwakho, ngokubhekiselele kwimvelaphi yezinto ezinamandla ezinamandla.