"Hayi, ndingenangqiqo!" - yavula izandla zamantombazana amantombazana. Kuba ixesha libachaphazela abantu beenxa zonke, kodwa iingxaki ziqala, kwaye sijamelene nombuzo wokuba sihlakulele ingqiqo, kuba ingqondo engekho ivumelekile ukunyusa ukwenziwa komsebenzi.
Ukunyamekela nokunyamekela
I-Psychology ibona ingqalelo njengengingqi yendalo, ikholelwa ukuba ngaphandle kokuqhubeka nokuphuhliswa kobuntu kuya kuba nzima. Umntu ongazi indlela yokugxila kwisifundo esiyiyo, akakwazi ukusebenza ngokufanelekileyo kwimisebenzi kunye neengxaki. Ngoko ke, ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo kuyimfuneko kulabo abafumana ukungahambi kakuhle kwalo mgangatho.
Indlela yokwandisa ukukhumbula Kukholelwa ukuba yonke into iqala ngomkhwa oqhelekileyo wokunyamekela yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini. Iingcali ezininzi zincoma ukuzama ukuyeka izenzo, ukubonisa ingqalelo nendlela esenza ngayo. Ingqwalaselo enjalo kuzo zonke iinkqubo zobomi ziqala ukuthobela kunye nokukwazi ukugxila kunoma yimuphi umzuzu ofanelekileyo. Kodwa le yindlela enye yokuphucula ingqondo yakho. Ngokubanzi, kunokwenzeka ukuphuhlisa lo mgangatho usebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa ukuphulaphula umntu omdala?
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inyaniso yokuba abantu abadala bazibuza indlela yokuqeqesha ingqondo engalunganga - kufuneka bafundiswe ngabazali kunye nabanononophelo kwi-kindergarten. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, yintoni enokuyenza kumntu ongekho ebusweni obungenakukwazi ukukwenza le nto, kwaye ngoku uyayifuna? Impendulo iyabonakala - ukufunda iindlela zokuhlakulela ingqondo kwaye ungalibali ukuluqeqesha.
- Kutheni sifuna ukuthobela? Ukuvakalelwa ukuzaliseka kobomi ngexesha elithile. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba siya kufuna iimvakalelo eziphuculweyo-uthinte, ukuhogela, ukunambitha. Ukunyamekela iinkcukacha ezincinci - ungagxobisi inkomishi yekhofi kunye nekiki ekuhambeni, kodwa zama ukuziva zonke iingcamango zentle. Ukuqhumisa i-perfume, zama ukuqonda iklasi yephunga elimnandi, uzive "inqaku lentliziyo", uzive umzila weroma. Yenza njalo ngazo zonke iimvakalelo, zama ukuqwalasela ngeengcinga zonke iinkalo zeziganeko zangoku. Ngexesha lezenzo zonke, ungakulibala ukubala ingcinga zakho, hlalutya indlela ovakalelwa ngayo le nto okanye eso senzo, oko ucinga malunga nento eyenzekayo.
- Sivame ukuhlala apha kwaye ngoku, kodwa sithokozisa esidlulileyo okanye sifune induduzo kwixesha elizayo. Uhlobo luni lokucingisisa onokuyithetha ukuba ucinga ngalo lonke usuku malunga naluhlobo luni lwemvula ezaza xa uqala ukuvuma uthando lwakho kuqala? Ukukhangela kwintloko yam mnandi, awuvumeli ukuba ujabule ngalo mhla. Ngoko ke, qalisa ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nokuhlukana kunye neengcamango ezinzulu. Ukwandisa ukuqonda kwakho, uqonde ukuba iinkumbulo kunye nezicwangciso zomso zilungile kakhulu, kodwa kufuneka ube neendawo ezikhoyo. Ungabi namahloni ngokubonisa umdla ophilileyo malunga nento eyenzeka malunga nawe.
- Kukho oko kuthiwa "abantu abanomdla" -ukuhlala kwindawo ephakamileyo yengqondo, banako ukugqithisa iintaba, kwaye xa grey ezintliziyweni zabo, abanako ukunyanzelwa ukuba basebenze phantsi kwesibhamu. Yiyiphi inkathalo! Ngoko ke, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokulawula yakho
iimvakalelo. Zama ukuba ngumtsalane onobuhle ngaso sonke ixesha, umomotheka - uya kuthanda. - Khangela umzimba wakho, ukuba usebenza njani. Khangela oko kwenzeka ntoni kuwe xa utyhafile kwaye ukhathazeka kwaye uziphatha njani kwindawo ekhululekile. Hlaziya indlela oku kuchaphazela ngayo ukucinga kwakho.
- Yeka ukhathazeka ngexesha ngalinye. Yintoni eyenzekayo kuwe, unako ukutshintsha, kwaye iimvakalelo ezinobundlobongela ziphazamisa ukuhlolwa okucokisekileyo kwimeko. Ngako oko, funda ukwamkela okwenzekayo, ngoko ingqalelo yakho kwingxaki iya kufutshane.
- Sombulula iipuzzle ukufumana izinto. Oku kuya kukunceda ufunde ukuqwalasela iinkcukacha ezincinci, kwaye kungekhona nje ukuvavanya yonke imifanekiso.