Ungaziphoqa njani ukwenza into ethile?

Abantu abaninzi bayaqonda ukuba isizathu sokungaphumeleli kwabo kukusivila, kodwa kaninzi abakwazi ukuyicombulula le ngxaki, kuba abazi ukuba bazinyanzele ukwenza ntoni. Kodwa kukho indlela yokuphuma kule meko, ucinga nje ukucinga okufutshane kunye nobuvila kuya kunqotshwa.

Ungaziphoqa njani ukwenza into ethile?

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba yintoni isizathu sokungafuni ukujongana nale nto okanye loo mbandela. Ngokuqhelekileyo inkalo yendlela yokuziphatha yile:

1. Ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli kunye nokungabi nantoni kokusebenza kwesenzo. Umntu ucinga ukuba ukwenza into ayinalusizo, kuba oku akuyi kubakhokelela kwisiphumo esifunekayo.
2. Ungayithandi inkqubo ngokwayo, umzekelo, umntu akafuni ukuqhuba, kuba uyagula lolu hlobo lwemidlalo .
3. Ukukhathala.

Cinga kwaye ugqibe isizathu kwaye, ngokusekelwe kwimpendulo, ungaqala ukuyicombulula ingxaki kwaye uqonde indlela ozenza ngayo ukwenza izinto.

Ngoku sifanele sizame ukuqonda oku kulandelayo - ukuba luhlobo luni lwabantu onabo. Ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukuba umntu enze konke kanye, ngaphandle kokuzinika ixesha lokuphumla (thayipha "iMarathon"). Ukuchonga ukuba unjalo uhlobo olunjalo lulula, khumbula ukuba kaninzi kangakanani uyeka ngenxa yekhefu kwaye ungafuni ukuwugqiba. Abanye babhekisela kulona hlobo lwesibini lwabantu ("abaShrinta"), ngoko ke, ngubani ongakwazi ukujongana nayo into efanayo ngexesha elide; ngokuchaseneyo, ngaphantsi kokucwangcisa ukuphazamiseka, ukugqithisa kwabo bafumana umphumo.

Misela? Mkhulu! Makhe sijonge umzekelo, indlela ozenza ngayo oko ungafuniyo zombini, kunye nolunye uhlobo lwabantu.

Ngoko ke, umntu kufuneka abeke izinto ngokufanelekileyo kwindlu, kodwa uhlehlisa le nkqubo. Okokuqala, sihlalutya isizathu sokuba akwenze. Izizathu, umzekelo, zinokuthi zibe zintathu:

1. Ukwesaba nokungabi nalutho - kutheni ungaphumi, kuba ehlala yedwa, abahlobo abaya kuye, ngoko kunjalo, bangcolile okanye bahlambulukile. Kulo mzekelo, simele sivume ukuba umgangatho wobomi uxhomekeke kuthi kuphela, kwaye ukuba umntu ufuna ukuhlala nesidima, kufuneka azihlambulule kwaye azihloniphe, kungekhona kwabanye.
2. Inkqubo engathandekiyo - iidragi ezingcolileyo, uthuli kunye nezinye izinto "ezihlazo" zingathatyathwa yindlela ekhoyo yanamhlanje kunye nenhle yokucoca, ngoko umsebenzi ongathandekiyo ube ngumdlalo.
3. Ukukhathala kunganqotshwa kuphela enye indlela - ukulungiselela ukuphumla okufanelekileyo.

Cinga indlela onokuziphoqa ngayo ukwenza ukucocwa, ukuba ungowokuthi "Abaqhubi". Khetha ngokwakho ukusuka kwiiyure eziyi-1 ukuya kwezi-3 kuxhomekeke kwisikali sendawo , zibeke ixesha elicacileyo, umzekelo, ngo-13: 00 njengesiqalo kwaye ngeli xesha uqhubeke nokubeka izinto ngokulandelelana. Umsebenzi wakho kule meko akukho nawuphi na umcimbi ukulungiselela ukuphuka ukugqitywa kwenkqubo. Kwiseshedyuli yeemeko ezinyanzelekileyo, yenza ixesha apho ngeveki uza kubelwa ixesha lokucoca.

Ukuba umntu "u-Sprinter", kuya kuba lula ngaye ukuba enze amancinci "iintsuku zemihla ngemihla", ngaloo ndlela ugcine ucoceko. Ngokomzekelo, ngoMsombuluko uhlambe izitya, ngeLwesibini, uhlambulule iipatethi, ngoLwesithathu usule uthuli njalo njalo.