Yintoni ekunxibelelwano lwezoshishino kwaye kubani ekujoliswe kuyo? Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokubonakala ngathi wena uqobo awunxulumene nobomi boshishino kunye nokukwazi ukubhala kwiintlobo zeendlela ezisemthethweni zentetho kuwe nantoni na. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumsebenzi, ngamnye wethu ujongene nemeko ebomini xa sifanele sithethe negosa, okanye sibhale inqaku elisemthethweni. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ingqalelo ihlawulwa kungekhona kwingxelo yomsindo, kodwa ukugcina imigaqo yoqhagamshelwano loshishino . Ngoko, sifunda phezulu kwe-iceberg yoshishino "umdlalo".
Ukusebenza kweengqondo
Ukuxolelwa
Abamabhizinisi baseMerika baphikisa ukuba ishishini likwazi ukuthetha nabantu. Ukuphazamiseka, sinokuthi ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba kule ngxaki, "ukuthetha" kuthetha "ukuthengisa abantu." Kwaye ngokwenene, ngaba uyayithobela umgaqo-nkqubo olandelayo wendlela yokunxibelelana kweshishini: abathengisi-abacebisi, abalobi, abalobi kwiindawo zokudlela ezifanelekileyo - bonke baqeqeshwa ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye kufuneka bajonge "ngeenaliti". Lo ngumgaqo wokuqala wengqondo wezonxibelelwano zoshishino - "umgaqo wobubele", othi abantu abonakala banomdla kuthi banokukholwa ngakumbi kunabo abangasithandi ngaphandle.
U mahluko
Abangenayo abanomdla basebenzise lo msebenzi-okokuqala banikela izindlu ezininzi kunye nexabiso elicacileyo eligqithisiweyo, kwaye ubonise oko bazimisele ukuthengisa. Ngenxa yoko, imali yokugqibela ibonakala ngumntu ongeyomfuneko ekufumaneni loo nto. Lo mgaqo waqinisekiswa yizinzulu xa abafundi bebuzwa ukuba bafake izandla zabo kwiibhakethi ezintathu: owokuqala - ngamanzi atshisayo, okwesibini - ngokufudumele, okwesithathu - ngokubanda. Kwesobunxele bashushu, bekunene-kubanda, kwaye ke izandla zombini kwiibhakethi elifudumeleyo. Ngenxa yoko, isandla sokunene sinomuzwa wokuthi amanzi abanda, kwaye ilungelo "likholelwa" ukuba liphela nje amanzi abilayo.
Ubungqina bentlalo
Lo ngowomnye wemigaqo-jikelele yomnxibelelwano wezoshishino, osetyenziswa ngokubanzi ngabapolitiki. Kwiprojekti yonyulo, kubalulekile ukuba uluhlu uluhlu lwabantu abadumileyo abavakalisa "isivumelwano esigcwele nomviwa"
Utshintsho oluluncedo
Lo mgaqo wokuziphatha wezonxibelelwano zoshishino usetyenziswa iziseko zokuncedisa kunye namacandelo, kunye nabathengisi. Okokuqala, banikezela into ethile (umzekelo: ikhadi leposi kunye nesikhumbuzo), kwaye ke bacela ukuba benze igalelo lokunceda.
Okanye enye inketho - unike iisampula zamahhala, uze unikele ukuthenga. Umntu uhlala ezama ukubuyisela imbeko enikezwa kuye ukuba angabonakali, kwaye ngenxa yoko, uthenga kwaye wenza igalelo.