Wonke umntu ngokukhawuleza abhekane neemeko zobomi ezifuna ukuba abonise ukuzimisela nokuzimela ekuthatheni izigqibo ezithile.
Kwiimeko ezinzima, umntu onobuthathaka angakwazi ukudideka, ukungathandabuzeki omnye emva kokuvela kwintloko. Unqotshwa ngumnqweno wokulahla uxanduva, ukufumana ubungqina bokuchaneka kwezigqibo ezenziwe ngabanye. Kodwa ngenxa yokunganqikazi, ngamanye amaxesha akakwazi ukubonisa isibindi ekwenzeni isigqibo. Ubuntu obunqwenelayo, ngokwakho, busebenza ngokwempawu zengqondo okanye ngezwi langaphakathi kwaye lenze izigqibo ezipheleleyo ngokuzimela ngokupheleleyo, ukuqonda ukuba kuyimfuneko ngandlela-thile ukufezekisa umntwana.
Into eyona nto ibalulekileyo malunga nokugqiba
Ukuchithwa kwengqondo kwinqanaba lomntu ngamnye umntu, ehambelana nokukwazi kwakhe ukwenza izigqibo ngokwakhe kwaye enze izigqibo ngethuba, ezama ukuwaqonda kulo msebenzi. Ngomntu ozimisele, umzabalazo weenjongo zakhe uhlala ngokuphela kokwamkelwa kwesigqibo esicacileyo.
Ukukwazi ukubonisa ukuzimisela kukumgangatho womntu okwazi ukwenza izigqibo ngolwazi kunye noxanduva lokuzimela kunye noxanduva.
Izinzuzo zokuzimisela
I sibindi kunye nokuzimisela kungahlakulela ukuqeqeshwa kumntu ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngexesha elifanayo kukuvumela ukuba wenze izenzo ezingenangqiqo, ngezinye izihlandlo ezingenakuqondakala kwabanye.
- unike umntu ithuba lokufezekisa iinjongo zabo ngaphandle kokuqaphela izithintelo endleleni eya empumelelweni.
- Ngoncedo lo mgangatho, umntu ozimiseleyo unokuqiniseka ngokuzenzela kunye nezigqibo zakhe.
- Inkalipho, njengokuzimisela, unike umntu ngamnye ukuba akholelwe ngamandla abo phantsi kweemeko ezinzima.
- kunceda ukukrazula iintambo zokungabaza, ukungaqiniseki kunye nokungabaza, okukuphela kokukhulula ukholo ngokwalo.
- Ndiyabonga ngokuzimisela, impumelelo iyahamba nganye.
Ukuzimisela kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla
Inkalipho nokuzimisela ebomini bemihla ngemihla kunceda ukuqonda ukuba yonke imeko ineempawu ezintle, yonke into ingatshintshwa, ngenxa yokuba ukwazi ngokwabo kunye neemeko zobomi kunceda ukuqonda indlela ngamnye wethu akwazi ngayo ukuba nesibindi. Nazi ezinye zeemeko eziza kukunceda ukuba uqonde ukuba kwimini yonke yemihla kukho ithuba lokuzikhukhumeza nokuvuya, ngenxa yemigqaliselo enobunzima nabanqwenela abantu.
- Ukususela kwizenzo zabaqhubi, abaqhubi bezothutho karhulumente, oogqirha bancike kubomi babanye. Kwaye, xa imeko enkulu kakhulu ugqirha wenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki, akunakwenzeka ukuziqhayisa.
- Iimidlalo ezigqithiseleyo kwiimbaleki zazo zihlala zidinga ukuzimisela kunye nesibindi.
- Ngaphandle kwezenzo zabangenayo kukho ukuzimisela. Ukukhetha umsebenzi wakhe wexesha elizayo, nangona kunzima, uhamba ngokuzimisela kwiinjongo zakhe, ukuqonda i-granite yesayensi ukuze aphumeze oko ayenayo.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa ukuzimisela?
Umntu akazalwanga ngesibindi, uya kuba. Ukuphuhliswa kokuzimisela kuxhomekeke kukuthanda komntu ngokwakhe, ngesifiso sakhe sokuvumela ukuzimela kunye noxanduva lokuthatha izigqibo.
Cinga ngamacandelo anceda ukuphuhlisa ukuzimisela:
- Musa uvila ukuze usebenze ngokwakho. Funda ukunqoba nayiphi na ubunzima, uvavanye ukungaphumeleli ngalunye njengethuba lokuphuhlisa isisombululo sakho. Isiqhwithi sithatha into ebonakala ngathi ikhona
kuqala ukubona engenasiphelo. - Yenza isicwangciso sokukora. Kufuneka ube nommandla obalulekileyo. Ndiyabulela kwiinjongo ezisendleleni yakho, unokukwazi ukunqoba ukunqongophala, ukuhlakulela ukuzimisela kwinkqubela phambili ekuphumeleleni komntwana.
- Mamela ilizwi lakho langaphakathi, intuition yakho. Ngaphantsi kuncike kwimpembelelo yezimvo zabanye kwaye uya kufundisa ukuzimisela kuwe.
Ngoko, ukuzimisela akunzima kunzima ukuphuhlisa. Kufuneka nje ukuba ube nomonde kunye nasoloko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, ukukholelwa ngamandla akho.