Kwiengqondo, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphatha abantu. Akunakunceda kuphela abo bafuna ukuyisebenzisa ukuze bafezekise iinjongo zabo, kodwa nabo bonke abaluhlu, baphoqelekile ukuba bazikhusele kwimpembelelo yabanye. Eli nqaku liya kukuxelela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphathwa.
Indlela yokuphatha abantu ngamagama nangezenzo?
Nazi iindlela eziqhelekileyo:
- Indlela ehambelana nokunyamekela nothando. Ingundoqo yayo kukubangela ukuba umntu abe nomsebenzi wokusebenza , kwaye engazi. Ngokomzekelo, umfazi ufuna ukufumana into evela kumyeni wakhe aze amlungiselele ngaphambili kwintetho, ukudibana kunye nobumncumo obumnene, ukuthatha ibhola lokufudumala kunye nokuzihlaziya okuphumayo. Emva kovuyo, indoda ayikwazi ukumnqaba.
- Indlela ehambelana nokuphindaphinda, eyaziwa ngokuba ngumama wokufunda. Le ndlela yokusetyenziswa ngokubambisa ingundoqo kwi-arsenal yabathengisi. "Emva kwakho konke, ufanelwe!" - ukuvakalisa ukukhangisa kunye nabasetyhini baqhutywa, bechitha imali eninzi xa kuthengwa kwempahla.
- Ukukwazi ukuphatha abantu kubandakanya indlela ehambelana nesilingo. Nguwuphi na utywala oya kumelana phambi kweglasi egcweleyo okanye umthandi wabasetyhini ngaphambi kwesinye isikhwele? Zonke iintlobo zezenzo kunye nezaphulelo kwiivenkile, ukumemeza ukuba kuphela namhlanje unokufumana ixesha lokuthenga izinto ngeendleko, sukela injongo yokuthengisa le mveliso.
- Abo banomdla wendlela yokufunda indlela yokuphatha abantu besuka kwindlela yokujonga ngayo i-psychology, kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise indlela enxulumene nokugwetywa komntu, okuqhelekileyo kwixesha le-USSR, xa abantu bebizelwa kwiphephethi baze baxelelwe esidlangalaleni nasiphi na iphoso.
- Abo bacela indlela yokuphatha kakuhle abantu, ungasebenzisa indlela yokufumbathisa. Njengoko uyazi, ukulwa nokukhwabanisa kuqhutyelwa kuzo zonke iindawo, kodwa kude kube kuphele ukupheliswa, kukho abo bazimisele ukuhlawula nokunikezela iinkonzo.
- Indlela yokuguqulwa kwengqondo, eyenza abantu bafumane ukusabela okulungileyo. Ngokomzekelo, umfazi ufuna ukuchitha iveki kunye nentanda yakhe, kwaye uya kudoba njengenhlanhla. Emva koko umxelela into efana nale: "Ndivuyiswe kukuba nethuba lokuphumla kunye kunye nobusuku, ndiza kunye nabahlobo bam kwi-nightclub." Indoda iyatshitshiswa, akafuni ukuvumela umfazi ukuba aye yedwa kwaye ahlale ekhaya.
Ewe, ezi zinto azikho zonke iindlela ezikhoyo, kukho abanye. Ukunyanzelisa ngokuphumelelayo kuxhomekeke ekubeni umntu uyazi njani enye, iimpawu zakhe, ubuthathaka, njl njl. Nangona kunjalo, ukusebenzisa ukuphathwa, akuyimfuneko ukugxotha imilinganiselo yokuziphatha yombuzo, kuba ngomso umntu uza kufuna ukusebenzisa le ndlela.