Umntu olinganiselayo uyazi ukubona indlela efanelekileyo ngayo yonke into - le mfanelo enokumnceda ayinakuyinika ngamnye wethu. Ukuthobeka, ungakhethi nibone yonke into eyenzeka ngeenxa zonke, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa nayiphi na ingqondo ye-gyrus ukuba ihlukanise iiprayimari ukusuka kwisekondari-kutheni abanye banethamsanqa ukuba bazalwe ngokulinganayo, kwaye abanye kufuneka balwe kwaye bahlupheke kwiinjongo zabo?
Isizathu sesistim se-nervous system, esinqunyiwe ngokwemvelo - kwisibeleko sikamama esilungelelwe ngaphambili, ukunyanzeliswa , ukungakhethi, okanye uburhala, ukuxabana, ubukhali. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhangela kwengqondo ngumgangatho onokuthandabuza owenzelwe ekuzalweni, kodwa abantu abanesifo esixakekileyo bangakwazi ukulungisa imiba yabo kunye neentaba.
Impawu ezahlukileyo zomntu onokulinganisela
Makhe sibone indlela i-balance balance emoyeni ekhangele ngayo, kuba unokufikelela kwiinjongo ezithile kwaye
- phambi kwalo mhlaba ophefumulayo womphefumlo kunye nengqiqo yobulumko:
- Ukulinganisela kubonisa ukuvisisana kweengcinga, iimvakalelo nezenzo zomntu, ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa ngokukhawuleza okanye okuphikisanayo;
- umntu olinganiselayo unokuqonda yonke into eyenzeka ngaye, uyavavanya ngokuzenzekelayo abantu abakujikelezileyo, ngaphandle kokugxotha amathemba kunye nokungabikho komkhethe;
- Ukuxhamla kobugqithiso kukuba olu rhulumente lusisikhusela kwizenzo kunye namazwi;
- Ubonakaliso obonakalayo obuninzi bobuchule obulinganiselayo bubunokuthinteka, uxolo, ukuzithemba.
Ewe, ukuzola kunye nokusila kuncedo kunoma yimuphi ummandla womsebenzi. Kodwa kukho imeko apho kungekho nto ibaluleke ngaphezu kokuhlala epholile.
Umzekelo, inkqubo yemfundo. Abantwana bavame ukuthatha abazali babo kumkhuhlane omhlophe, kodwa ukukhuliswa kunye nenkcazo yecala lomntwana inokwenzeka kuphela xa umntu omdala ebona ukuba isiganeko sinokulinganisela nokungakhethi. Kuloo meko, abantwana bayaqonda ukuba banomntu omele athathe umzekelo.
Okona ukulinganisela kwengqondo kwimiba engqubuzanayo kwindawo yokusebenza. Kukho ubuncinane ummandla omnye womsebenzi apho ukulinganisela nokuxhatshazwa kwengcinezelo kuyona mfuneko ephambili - idiplomacy. Kukhona amandla okungaxhomeki kwiimvakalelo zengqondo kunye neengcibi zabachasi zifana nezidibanisi "ezivela kuThixo." Kanye nakwiingxoxo, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukukhusela ingcamango yakho, ukuphikisana naye ngeengxabano zeengqiqo, kwanokuba uvuselele abaphulaphuli ukuba balungile xa ilizwi lakho lizama ukuthukuthela, ukugqithisa iimvakalelo kunye nokubonakala? Isithethi esinjalo abantu abambalwa baya kuba nako ukuphulaphula, nangona amazwi akhe aya kuyanyaniseka kwaye ayinyani.
Ukufunda ukulinganisela
Njengoko sele sithethile, kubantu abathile, ukulinganisela kunye nokumelana nokuxinzelela kuyisipho esivela ngasentla, kwabanye - ibe yidayimani enamandla. Ngoku siqwalasela imeko yesibini, xa uya kufuneka usebenze ngokwakho ngokuhlonipha umgangatho wakho oxabisekileyo.
- "NgeCawa kusihlwa" - kunoko, imini. Lo msebenzi uya kuba luncedo ngakumbi kubantu abade balala kwi-rut, kwaye kwandlela ngandlela-thile baqhelisela ukuyeka ukuphazamiseka kwemiba. Ingongoma kukuthi
uvuko (okanye naluphi na usuku olukhethiweyo) awuzange uhlawulise nantoni na umntu - kungekhona kumyeni wakho, okanye kubantwana bakho, okanye kwiintombi zakho, nakwiintsapho zakho. Simele sizinyanzele ukuba senze le mini ibe yinto yethu, kwaye siyinikezele kuphela izinto ezintle. Ngama-2-3 "ukuvuswa" awukhiphi nje uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, kodwa umangaliswe ngendlela ohlala ngayo ngaphandle "kwimihla yakho". - Ukucamngca - lo msebenzi ungenziwa kuyo yonke indawo: ukuhlala, ukulala, ukuhamba, njl. Umgca ongezantsi ukucinga (okunzima). Zonke iinjongo eziya kutyelela intloko yakho kufuneka zinyathele njengamafu - uzibona, kodwa azikulimazi. Yindlela enhle yokuphumla nokucima ingqondo yakho yokuqonda kweemvakalelo.