Ubomi bomntu bomntu wakhe yingqondo yakhe kwihlabathi elikujikelezile, kubonakaliswe kwiingcamango zakhe nangezenzo zakhe. Le nto inokubamba isohlo xa udibana kwaye usahlukanisa omnye nomnye ngengqondo yengqondo. Ichaphazela ukukwazi ukunqoba ubunzima, kwimpumelelo yethu kwaye inquma amandla phezu kwesiphumo sakhe.
Indawo ecacileyo yobomi ibonakaliswe kuzo zonke iinkalo zomsebenzi wabantu: ukuziphatha, okomoya, intlalo-kwezopolitiko kunye nabasebenzi. Ibonisa ukuxhatshazwa kokuziphatha komntu, oko kukuthi, ukulungela kwakhe ukwenza isenzo esisebenzayo.
Ukubunjwa kwendawo yokuphila kuqala ngokuzalwa kwaye kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwimeko apho umntu ehlala khona. Isiseko sayo sizalwa xa umntwana efunda ukuthetha nabazali, abahlobo, ootitshala, abahlala kuluntu. Ngokuxhomekeka kwezi ntlubano, ukuzimisela komntu kubonisiwe.
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Ubume bokuphila buyimfihlo yimfihlelo yokuzimelela nokuphumelela. Ibonakalisa ngesibindi sokuqala kunye nokuzimisela ukwenza. Ukuze siyifake, sidinga injini eya kusishukumisela phambili. Kwinjongo yenjini enjalo, iiminqweno zethu zenza, eziza kusiphakamisa ngaphezu kwazo zonke iingxaki kwaye zisincede sifinyelele iinjongo zethu. Umntu onomsebenzi osebenzayo unokuba yinkokheli, kwaye mhlawumbi ulandele inkokeli, kodwa uhlala enesimo sakhe sengqondo kunye namandla okukhusela.
Kukho iindidi ezilandelayo zendawo yokusebenza esebenzayo:
- Isimo esihle. Kujoliswe kwimilinganiselo yokuziphatha yoluntu, ukuvunyelwa kokulungileyo kunye nokulwa nokuziphatha okubi.
- Ukungalungi. Akunjalo abantu abakhutheleyo nabasebenzayo basebenzisa imizamo yabo kwizenzo ezintle, izenzo zabo zingabalimaza abanye kunye nabo. Umzekelo wesimo esichukumisayo sokuphila esincinci sinokuthatha inxaxheba kwimigundane eyahlukeneyo. Inkokeli yegundane-umntu uzonwabile ngokusebenzayo, eneenkolelo eziqinileyo, iinjongo ezithile, kodwa iinkolelo zakhe ziyingozi kuluntu, kungekhona kuye.
Ukuchasana kwesi sikhundla esibalulekileyo kukungabikho komsebenzi. Umntu onendawo yokuphila engekho phantsi uyangena kwaye akanandaba. Amazwi akhe nezenzo zakhe ziyahlukana, akafuni ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuxazululeni iingxaki kunye neengxaki zoluntu ahlala kuyo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kufana nokuziphatha kwenciniba, efihla intloko yayo entlabathi, ecinga ukuba le yindlela ekhuselekileyo yokuzikhupha iingxaki. Imigaqo enjalo ayilona ingozi kunokuba yindawo ephilileyo yokuphila. Kungakanani ukungabi nabulungisa kunye nolwaphulo-mthetho luqhutywa ngokungahambi kwethu?
Isikhundla sokuphila esincinci singabonakaliswa ngeendlela ezilandelayo:
- Ukugqiba ukungasebenzi. Abantu abakweli candelo bachongwa ngokusingathwa kweengxaki kwiingxaki. Ingozi kunye nobunzima zibaphazamisa, kwaye zilinde ukulungiswa kwezi meko.
- Ukungeniswa. Umntu ugcina ngokungqongqo imithetho nemimiselo yabanye abantu, ngaphandle kokucinga malunga nokwanela kunye nemfuno yale mithetho.
- Ukuxolisa. Ukuphunyezwa kwezenzo ezingenayo iinjongo ezakhayo. Ngokomzekelo, ingxolo, ingxabano, ingqongqo
umsebenzi, uqondiswe kuphela kwisikhokelo esingalunganga. - Ukuziphatha okubi. Umntu uhlawula ityala lokungaphumeleli kwakhe kubantu abangakhange bavulelwe kulo. Ngokomzekelo, umama ophula umsindo wakhe kubantwana ngenxa yeengxaki zomsebenzi.
Nangona iimeko zobomi zakhiwa ebuntwaneni kwaye kuxhomekeke kuluntu esiphila kuyo, akusibi kakhulu ukuyeka kwaye ucinge malunga nokuba yeyiphi indawo yobomi bakho, zeziphi iingenelo ozizisa kubakubo. Kwaye ukuba, isiphumo sokubonakalisa asinelisekanga - akusibi kakhulu ukutshintsha.