Ngamnye wethu ufuna ukuthandwa, ukunyamekelwa, ukumthandayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unqula. Kodwa akusoloko kuphelelwa ngumntu kunika into oyifunayo. Xa isiqingatha sesibini siyeka ukukunandipha kunye nosana lokusa, ukutshatyalaliswa kothando, iingcinga ziqala ukuvuthwa entloko yakho malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntu oyintanda ngenxa yokunyaniseka. Ndifuna ukwenza oko ukuze aqonde indlela yokukukhusela oko kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba kukukhuthaza ukuba uvuke ngokumomotheka, ukukhawuleza ekhaya ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, ukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni, elilodwa kunye nelinde elide elinde.
Iimfihlelo eziphambili, indlela yokufundisa isifundo kumyeni wam ngokungahoywa
Okokuqala kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile ukulibala malunga neendlela ezinokuthi, "Ulwabelana ngesondo namhlanje lukhanselwa,". yam intloko ibuhlungu. Ukongezelela koko, kufuneka uyeke ukukhubekiswa nakwethembekileyo, ukhonkxwe ekhoneni uze usule iinyembezi. Bathi la magama anengqiqo ngakumbi kunamaphi amagama.
Ngoko, ukulahla le ngcamango, kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza ukuba usebenzise: ngokuba ukungamnquli umfana kunokufundiswa nje njengoko wenzayo nomthandi wakhe. Ngokomzekelo, wayekhohliwe ngengozi ngemfihlakalo, isikrweqe setafile kwindawo yokutyela kwaye ngaloo ntsasa iinkcukacha zesondlo zothando zaxoxwa ngazo. Apha, yinto enye kuphela efanelekileyo: ukubeka ingubo eqaqambileyo kwaye ujonge nabahlobo. Yaye akukho, akukho mntu walilibale ngothandwa wakhe. Phakathi kwidlo, unako ukubiza nokuxelela ngokumomotheka ukuba isidlo sasinaso ixesha lokupheka, kuba unokwenza enye "Mivina".
Ukungena kwindoda kumfazi kuyiphutha elibi kakhulu, elingayidlala nehlazo elibi nakwixesha elizayo. Ingaba ucinga ukuba ikhefu lokubeleka lingamahora omabonakude angama-24? Emva koko kulungele ukuba yenzeke ngengozi yenze i-aphoyintimenti yonke imini kunye ne-beautician, ushiye uyihlo nomntwana yedwa.
Akukho senzo esichukumisayo kwisabelo sakhe - wasibala ngokuzalwa kwakhe. Ewe, ngoko kwangoko ngengozi uyalibala malunga nokuzalwa kwakhe, umhla wokuzalwa kwezihlobo zakhe nomama.
Enye yezindlela ezilula kunye nezincinci zeempindezelo zokunganakwa kukuba kukuphazamise ukucinga ngazo. Into eyona nto ayikukuzenza njengokuba ungamkhathaleli, kodwa ubhalise ngokuqinisekileyo kwezinye iikhosi, tyelela kunye nabahlobo bazo zonke iintlobo zeeklasi zokufunda, uye kwiifrimu, njl.
Ukuba sithetha ngomntu ongenamsebenzi kwiimbopheleleko zentsapho, ngoko, umzekelo, omnye akufanele 'athathe ingqondo' kwinto yokuba akawuthabathi udoti kwaye akafanelekanga, ubilise ngomsindo, athabathe ipakethe aze ahambe esitratweni. Makube nomntu othembekileyo ovakalelwa kukuba uhlazo oluvela kwinqwelo yeveki kwiinkunkuma.