Ufuna ukulungiselela ummangalelwa ummangalelwa wakho, kodwa ungazi njani? Mhlawumbi zethu iingcamango zomntu omthandayo kwaye uthanda, kwaye indoda yakho iya kuthanda le "sipho".
Yimangalisa kangakanani ukulungiselela umntu omthandayo?
Kunzima kangakanani ukwenza ummangalelwa kumntu othandekayo xa kunomnqweno omkhulu wokukholisa indoda, kodwa indlela yokwenza ngayo, awuyikho nto. Le ngxaki ibalulekile ukuhlolisisa iinkcukacha.
Okokuqala, makhe sibone ukuba yiyiphi into emangalisayo abantu abayithandayo. Mhlawumbi abo ba kholisa iliso, banandipha umdla, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abo bagxininisa uthando nothando lomfazi wakhe kuye.
Ngoku khumbula into oyithandayo umntu wakho, kwaye wenze oku kuluhlu. Uthanda ukutya okumnandi - upheke isidlo sokuthanda, uphupha udumo, ulandele iqaku kumaphephancwadi okanye kwiphephancwadi lendawo, ujonge ngentshiseko uvavanyo lwezesondo - cinga ngokukhawuleza oko ungamangalanga.
Yintoni, kwakhona akukho mbono okanye kwenzeke ntoni? Ngoko ke ezinye iinketho ezimbalwa malunga nendlela onokumangalisa ngayo umthandayo.
Indlela yokulungisa isimangalo kumthandi wakho?
- Ufuna ukulungiselela ukumangaliswa okungaqhelekanga kwintanda yakho? Mmemele ekuhambeni ngokubambisana epakini (ekungcono ngokuhlwa), okuya kuphelisa ngemisebenzi yomlilo. Ukuhlelwa kwemisebenzi yomlilo kulungele ukushiya inkampani ekhethekileyo kule nto. Kwakhona ukhetho olungileyo lukwaziswa ngokubambisana kwezibane zaseTshayina. Apha angenziwa ngezandla zabo.
- Unokwenza umncinci, kodwa umangaliso kumntu othandekayo ngokutshintsha iphepha lodonga kwidesktophu yakho kwikhompyutha yakho jikelele. Okanye unako ukutshintsha umgcini wesikrini, ukubhala khona izinto ezintle okanye ezihlekisayo. Misela nje ixesha elilandelayo emva kokuba lo mgcini-skrini kufuneka avele, kungekho enkulu kakhulu. Umzekelo, imizuzu engama-2-5 emva kokuba ikhompyutheni ingenzi lutho, ngaphandle koko umthandwa wakho akanakuboni ukumangaliswa kwakho. Kodwa, ukuba yonke into isebenza, uya kuvuya ukubona umyalezo onjalo ovela kuwe ekuphumeni kokusebenza.
- Ukumangaliswa kwangaphambili kumntu othandekayo kungaba yiwebhsayithi okanye iblogi edalwe ngozuko lwakhe. Kukho unokwenza amabali amnandi, amathandabuzo ebomini bakho kunye, iifoto zomntu othandekayo. Isiqhagamshelo sokuqala kwisibonelelo singanikwa kuzo zonke izalamane nabahlobo, ukuze baqaphele khona. Ewe, emva kokuthanda kwakho unokugijima apho, makamangaliswe kwaye ujabule, bangaphi abantu abazama ukumenza avuyiswe.
- Ukuba awuzange wabelane ngezinto ezithandwayo kunye nolunye uhlobo lwezemidlalo okanye ulwalathiso lomculo, mangaliswe ngamatekiti ekhoneni yebhendi oyithandayo okanye umdlalo weqela lakho ozithandayo. Ukumangalisa okukhulu kumntu othandayo kuya kuba ukuba uya kuleso siganeko.
- Kwiifilimu zaseMerika, ngokukhawuleza xa kuza kumangaliswa kwintombi yakhe, ngokukhawuleza ekugqibeleni ikhekhe elikhulu liqala ngokuphuma kunye nentombazana ephuma kuyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, thina asikho eMelika, kodwa akukho nto iyingozi. Myalelo ngokwakho ikhekhe, unokucela ukuba wenze inxalenye yalo edliwayo, kodwa ukuzaliswa kwekhekhe, ngokwemvelo, kukuhle kakhulu, ngaba uya kuthi.
- Ukumangalisa ngesondo kumntu omthandayo kungabakho umdlalo owenziwe nguwe. Into eyona nto kukukrazula ukunyaniseka kwakho, fumana isambatho esihle kwaye wenze i-atmosphere esondeleyo. Oku kuya kukunceda umculo omhle, ukukhanya okulumkileyo, okulula ukudala ngeendwangu zobusuku okanye ikhandlela kunye nama-aromas amafutha abalulekileyo. Isambatho sakhe kufuneka sinikezwe ingqalelo ekhethekileyo, khumbula ukuba umntu akathandi ukubukela kuphela, mhlawumbi uya kufuna ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuphumeni kwakho. Masibeke umnqweno wokugqiba, kodwa ukuba yonke into ayenzekanga ngokukhawuleza, khetha i-corsets kwiihitshi ezincinci kunye ne-lacing complex, kodwa kungekhona ngombane.