Ukuba uthando olungunaphakade lukhona, mhlawumbi kungekuqala ukuba uya kuba nethamsanqa ukuhlangabezana nomntu onobuhle kuwe. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze uxabise iqabane lakho elikhethiweyo, iqabane lomntu, kufuneka uqonde ukuba yiyiphi imfuneko oyifunayo. Uhlobo luni lomntu ofuna ukukubona emva kwakho? Yintoni okufanele ukuba Ngokwemvelo, iimpendulo zale mibuzo zifumaneka kuphela kwindlela yethu yesilingo kunye nephutha. Akukho mntu uya kukuxelela ngubani oza kukhululeka, de uze ungaqondi. Ngaphandle koko, nangayiphi na indlela.
Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, rhoqo, nokuba ngowokuqala okanye nawuphi na olandelayo, kubonakala kuwe ukuba nguye kanye kuphela. Nguyena oyifunayo! Kwaye, emva kwexeshana, uqaphela ukuba akukho ... kwakhona kwakhona akunjalo. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba kutheni okwenzekayo: mhlawumbi ayihambisani nemibono yakho, mhlawumbi iziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga, okanye mhlawumbi ayikwazi ukukuxabisa ngokufanelekileyo kwayo. Izizathu zingahluka kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, wonke umntu unayo. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, umphumo uyafana phantse kwimeko nganye: ukuhlukana kukufa okuncinci, ukufa okuncinci kwincenye yomphefumlo wethu.
Ndingathini ukukhathazeka ngothando?
Sonke siyaqonda ukuba unxulumano oluninzi lwabantu lubangela ukuhlukana nokuxinezeleka. Masizame ukukhusela imiphumo esondeleyo, okanye nciphise ubuncipheko babo kwimpilo yethu.
- Cinga malunga nento umntu okwenene ngakumbi kunoko. Enyanisweni, bangaphi abantu abanenkathazo kunye nokudumala kumntu, kwintombazana, kumntu othandekayo akusiyo yonke isizathu sokusika imiva yakho, ukukhawuleza ukusuka kwibhuloho, njl njl.
- Njalo into enokuyenza. Ukunyanga okusemgangathweni kwintandane kumntu othandekayo ngumsebenzi. Umthetho uze uphazamiseke ukuze iingcinga ezimbi zingangeni entloko yakho.
- Mkhulule umntu. Musa ukukhumbula engqondweni umntu onesizathu esithile asinakuhlala kunye. Musa ukubeka ityala, zama ukungaxhala - ungacingi ngento. Le nqanaba elidlulileyo.
Yaye ukhumbule, "yonke into engenziwanga - yenziwa ngcono." Phila ubomi bakho, uzele imibala kunye nethemba, ngoko ke uthando luya kuza kuwe. Yaye ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi lo thando luya kuba yintando yobomi bakho bonke.