Ukugcoba ngesantya
Ukuphonyula ngexesha lokubhedqa kuyinkqantosi ebanzi. Ukuwanelisa izidingo zabo zesini zibandakanya 8-9 kwabashumi abaselula, - bhala iifom zesipilili kwizifundo zabo. Kwakhona, iingcali zibonakalise ukuba umsebenzi onjalo awubandakanyi ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye nemizimba, ngaphandle kweemeko xa i-masturbation iba yintsholongwane. Okokuthi, intombazana iqala ukuhlambalaza ngokugqithiseleyo, ukwaneliseka kwenziwa ngendlela ekhethekileyo, okanye xa i-masturbation ikhethwa phambi kokulala ngesondo ngokuqhelekileyo kunye nomlingane. Kwezinye iimeko, inwaba yezitho zangasese kunye ne-orgasm, ephunyezwe ngokushukumisa ukukhangela kwesandla, ithathwa njengento eqhelekileyo kwaye ikhuselekileyo kubafana nabasetyhini ekukhuleni. Ukugcoba kweentsha, abafana kunye namantombazana, kubangelwa ukulungiswa kwe-hormone, ukukhula kancinci nokuphucula ngokwesondo. Kuyaziwa ukuba eli xesha lokukhula lihambelana nokukhukhumazeka kwengqondo, uxinzelelo kunye namava. Ukukhwabanisa, intombazana ifumana ukukhutshwa komzimba othile, iyanciphisa uxinzelelo ngokwesondo nangokomzwelo, ngaphezu koko, ngoko umntwana ufumana amava okuqala, okuza kumnceda ekuphephe ukwesaba nokukhuseleka ngexesha lokulala naye kunye naye. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafakazela ukuba ukuhlaziya i-masturbation ekukhuleni akukhokelela kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zesifo sokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, njengokungabi namandla kumadoda okanye ukungabikho komntwana kwabantwana besifazane, ngoko abazali akufanele bakhathazeke, kwaye banomngcipheko kumntwana "ngamabali ahlaselayo" avela kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Intshontsho yeselula ngokuchithwa kwengqondo
Inkolelo yokuba ukuhlaziya i-masturbation inobungozi, ivela kwimininzi yeenkulungwane.