Indlela yokulawula indoda?

Abaninzi abafazi bakholelwa ukuba amadoda anenkani kakhulu, ukuba abaze bavumeleke ukuba bahlale bethobela ukuhlambalaza kwabasetyhini, njl. Kodwa bayaphutha, ngenxa yokuba umntu unako ukwenza into efunwa ngumfazi. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukhethe indlela efanelekileyo kuyo. Ngokuncediswa kweemfuno zokugqibela, iimfuno kunye nemiyalelo, umfazi akayi kufezekisa into enhle. Kodwa ukukhuthazwa, udumo kunye nesicelo ziyakwazi ukudala umlingo ekuxoxeni nomntu.

Ngoko, makhe sizame ukujonga indlela yokuphatha umntu, oko kufuneka ukwazi ngocwangco wesini kwaye xa usebenzisa le milingo.

Psychology of Management Man

Okokuqala, sinika imizekelo yezizathu ezibonisa ukuba amadoda kufuneka alawulwe.

1. Abameli bezona ndawo ziqinileyo zendalo yonke banomnqweno omkhulu wokufumana umfazi phakathi kwabo. Isixhobo sakho esiyinhloko kukuba ungowesifazane kwaye unamaqhinga kunye nekhontrakthi egazini lakho abantu abangatholakali. Nokuba ngaba umnxibelelwano wakho ngumphathi wakho, osebenza nabo, ngoko ulahlekile ukuba awuqondi ukuba bakubona kuwe, okokuqala, ibhinqa, kwaye kuphela ngumqeshwa, njl.
2. Amadoda aziva iikhilomitha xa umntu ezama ukulawula inkululeko. Amadoda amaninzi aphila ngomgaqo: laphula iingcebiso zabasetyhini kwaye wenze konke okuthe ngqo. Amadoda ayinyamezeli xa umntu engena kwixesha labo elikhululekileyo. Kwaye kwakhona kuqinisekisa ukuba abafazi kufuneka basebenzise ukulawula ukulawula umntu ukuze kufezekiswe.
3. Amadoda, ngendlela, abuye asebenze ngesini esinobuthathaka kunye nesithandekayo. Okokuthi, ibhinqa kufuneka ifunde ukuqonda iindlela zokuxhaphaza, ithintela kwisigqibo sakhe kwinxalenye yabanye.

Akuyi kuba yinto enqwenelekayo ukuthetha malunga nantoni na abantu abasabela ngayo ngaphambi kokuba bathuthele indlela yokufunda indlela yokuyilawula.

Kwindoda, imvelo isekelwe kwisimo esinokuthi unamandla xa umntu ekhupha amandla akhe, amandla. Okokuthi, ukuba ufuna umntu wakho othandekayo ukuba azimelele ngakumbi, ngoko ucinga ukuba sele sele ekhona, umphathe ngokufanelekileyo.

Impawu zokulawula amadoda

Umntu unokuba ngumntu xa usubeke kuye. Okokuqala, kufuneka umkhombe ekukhangekeni. Olu lawulo lendoda lusekelwe kummandla wendalo wendalo. Ukuba ulawula ukuvusa kumntu, ngoko mzuzwana kuya kuba nzima ukuba acinge ngesizathu. Uya kuba semandleni akho. Ingqondo yakhe ingabonisa ukuba akufanele ukuphulaphule, kunika, kodwa umzimba wakhe uya kuthetha okuchaseneyo. Umlingani wakho kulolu lawulo yi-libido yesilisa. Vuka kumntu onomdla kuwe njengowesifazane. Cinga kwangaphambili zonke iinkcukacha. Khetha ukusikwa okungaqhelekanga kwe-sweatshirt, ukukhupha iqhosha eliphezulu. Kucetyiswa ukuba ukhethe umgca weklasi wokusika kunye nokusika okuphezulu.

Kwimeko apho umnxibelelwano wakho elingana nawe ngezinga lezenhlalakahle, ngoko unako ukufaka iimvakalelo eziphathekayo njengokuphathwa. Akunjalo ngokunyanisekileyo, kodwa thinta indoda. Imvakalelo emihle ingabangela ukubetheka kwengalo, ihlombe. Kodwa khumbula ukuba akufanele uphule isikhala somntu, ukuba isikhundla sakhe senu (umphathi, umzekelo).

Musa ukulibala ukuba umntu uyinkululeko yothando, oko kuthetha ukuthintela ukumgxeka. Oku kuhlazisa umntu wakhe, kumcaphukisa njengomntu. Ukuba kufuneka ube neqabane lakho ekhaya ngexesha elithile, mxelele ngobumnene ngento leyo, xhaphaza.

Kuwo onke amabhinqa afihliwe amandla okulawula amadoda, ngenxa yale nto kufuneka usebenzise izakhono zabasetyhini kunye nobuqili.