Uthando olulahlekileyo luyintlungu ngokwenene kwintsapho. Nayiphi na umtshato kunzima ukugcina iingxabano: "sinabantwana abaqhelekileyo", "Ndiyindoda ehloniphekileyo, kwaye akukho nto ikhona", "hlala, andiyi kuphazamisana nobomi bakho" ukuba indoda iyanda kwaye iya kutshatyalaliswa. Ewe, kwaye uyayiqonda kwakhona, unokukwazi: kulungile ukuhlala nomntu ongathandeki ohlala egubungela okanye ekhala, ehamba egqoke iingubo ezigcobileyo, kunye negama lokugqibela elifunde, akukho mntu ukhumbulayo, kuba bekuyiminyaka eyi-10 edlulileyo. Nangona kunjalo, unokuzama ukutshintsha into ethile kwaye ulwele iimvakalelo zendoda ethandekayo, kodwa ukuba uhlala ngezandla zakho, ngoko, ke, kamva okanye uya kufumanisa ukuba ubomi bunzima bunjani kumfazi ongatshatanga.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisela uthando?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisela uthando-kuxhomekeke kuwe kuphela: kuya kukwanela kangakanani injongo, ubuncedo kunye nomnqweno. Ngokwemfundiso, unokubuyisela uthando: lo mntu wakukhethile ukhetha, kodwa emva kwexesha wabuya utshintshile, kwaye uthando luyabonakala. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumsebenzi onjalo: ukufumanisa oko kungabikho kwintombi okwangoku.
Indlela yokubuyisela uthando ngobudlelwane nomyeni wakhe?
Ukuze ufunde indlela yokubuyisela uthando lomntu, kufuneka uqonde oko akusikhoyo, kwaye oku kuya kwenziwa ngeendlela ezininzi:
- ngqalelo. Ukuba uya naye, qwa lasela abo bhinqa, abo amehlo abo bawabhekayo, bafumanise ukuba ngabaphi abadlali abathandayo kunye naziphi iifilimu (ukuba ziqwalasele indima ye heroine nokubonakala). Into ephambili kukuqwalaselwa ngokunyamekileyo kunye nokuqwalaselwa iimpawu eziyimfuneko, kuba unokuthanda iinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo nendlela yokuziphatha;
- umbuzo ngqo. Ukuba ulwalamano luthembekile, unokucela umyeni wakho ukuba anikezele ngcebiso malunga noko angathanda ukutshintsha kuwe kwaye kutheni.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, kwakungenakwenzeka ukufumanisa, ngoko sihlakulela isicwangciso sehlabathi: indlela yokuphumelela uthando lomyeni.
- Kubonakala. Idatha yangaphandle yangaphandle ibaluleke kakhulu kokubili ukuzithemba nokuzikhangela umntu. Ungalondolozi imali ubuhle bakho: qha ga mshelana onguchwepheshe (unwele wezinwele, u-stylist, umenzi wezandla), sebenzisa izimonyo ezinkulu kunye neengqungquthela ezifanelekileyo.
- Umzobo. Ukubhalisa ukufaneleka, xa unesisindo esithe xaxa - hambisa ukutya, kuba umzimba ohle kwaye uguquguqukayo uthandwa kakhulu kwisini lesilisa. Nasiphi na isambatho siya kugxininisa ubulili, obuya kukhawuleza kakhulu "ukubuyela kothando."
- Um. Ukwazi iisiseko zeemathematika eziphezulu akuyimfuneko, kodwa isikhundla sokuphila esisebenzayo kunye nesigxina sokuqala siya kukuphakamisa emehlweni akhe. Kule nto, kwanele ukufunda iincwadi zesiRashiya okanye zangaphandle kwii-classics yonke imihla kwaye ubukele iindaba.
- Indlela yokuphumelela uthando lomyeni ngokuzimela? Ukuzimela kuyenza intombi ibe yimfihlakalo kwaye ayifumaneki, kwaye oku kanye yinto enokubangela ukuba abe ngumzingeli: khumbulani ukuba indlela yokukhula komsebenzi ivulekele kuphela amadoda.
- Indlu enhle. Apha siya kuqonda indlela yokubuyisela uthando lomyeni wakhe ekhaya. Naliphi na umntu ofuna ukubuyela ekhaya elifudumele, elihle, apho umfazi wakhe kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa silindele emva komsebenzi. Ukuba sisasebenza kowokuqala, ngoko ke kunzima ukuzalisekisa iphuzu lesibini: ukuphanga umlingane ngokuzonwabisa, ukugcina indlu ihlambuluke kwaye uyihlobise.
- Ukunyamekela. Ngoku sifunda ukubuyisela uthando lomntu othandekayo ngoncedo lokunyamekela nokuthandana: ngenxa yoko kufuneka umangalise umntu wakho ngezinto ezincinci. Zixhomekeke kwinto ayithandayo: ukuba i-pie cherry - egijima ekhitshini, ukuba ibhasi-bhanya - ngokukhawuleza kwivenkile yezemidlalo "ye-agrade".
- Ixesha elinomdla. Indlela yokubuyisela iimvakalelo ezicolile kunye nokukwazi ukudanisa i-striptease, akudingeki ukuba uchaze, kuba oku kuluhlu oluhle kakhulu lobusuku obungabalekiyo. I-Striptease yindlela efanelekileyo yokujonganisa ubomi bakho bentsapho.
- Nomona. Impendulo yowesifazane onobuqili kodwa onesibindi kumbuzo othi: "Indlela yokubuyisela kwakhona iimvakalelo zomyeni wakhe?" Ngaba iya kuba yinto engabonakaliyo: rhoqo kubangela umona. Ngedatha oyakuba nayo emva kwayo
akuyi kuba nzima ukulungiselela izinto zangaphambilini, nangona kunjalo, usadingeka ufunde ubugcisa bokudlala ngothando kunye nemikhwa, ukuze amadoda aqonde kakuhle iinjongo zakho ngokuzibonakalisa nokubonakalisa ubuso.
Indlela yokubuyisela uthando kwintsapho?
Kwiintsapho apho kukho abantwana (ikakhulukazi abaselula), ngamanye amaxesha kunengxaki abahamba kuyo kubazali babo, kunye nomyeni nomfazi omnye komnye. Kwaye kuvela ukuba akukho thando kwintsapho. Ukukulungisa oku, ulungiselele iiholide zentsapho ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye zonke iiveki zichithe kunye kunye: hamba ukuhamba, u-skating-skating, okanye uhlele umdlalo wekhaya kwenye imidlalo yebhodi.