Ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi buhamba ngezigaba eziliqela, ezilandelanayo ngokulandelelana ngokucacileyo. Kwaye, njengoko izazinzulu zibonisile, akukho mntu unokugqithisa izigaba zokulwa zobudlelwane phakathi kwebini. Omnye umbuzo yindlela yokunqoba ezi zigaba, ukuphepha ukulahlekelwa.
Amanyathelo okuphuhlisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nentombazana
Isigaba sokuqala sobudlelwane phakathi komfana omncinci kunye nentombazana kukuthandwa kunye nokukhangwa kwezesondo. Baye bahlangana kwaye banomdla komnye nomnye, iimvakalelo zabo zikhanya ngokugqithiseleyo ngenxa yamahomoni aqhankqalaza egazini. Ukukufanekisa eli nqanaba, kwanele ukukhumbula yonke iRomeo neJuliet edumile. Impazamo enkulu kule nqanaba kukukholelwa ukuba olo luthando luya kuhlala ngonaphakade.
Isigaba esilandelayo asiqiniseki. Ukuqala kwayo kubonakaliswe umgama othile, oqaliswe ngumthandabuzi: "Ngaba ndiyamdinga?" Emva kokunika iqabane lakhe ukuba lihambe, le nto mbazana iya kunxusa.
Kwinqanaba lesithathu lokuphuhliswa kobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nentombazana, abathandi banomnqweno wokuba yedwa omnye komnye. Ngeli thuba kuyinqwenela ukuphepha ukuhlambalaza kunye nomona , ongasala emva kwesigaba sokungaqiniseki.
Ukuphumelela ngokuphumelelayo emagqabini amathathu okuqala, abathandi bathanda ubudlelwane bokwenene. Eli nqanaba libonakaliswa ngokuthi "ukususa imaski", umfana kunye nentombazana bazizwa bekhululekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba bavumele ukuba bahlale.
Ubugca bokugqibela bobudlelwane bezithandani lukulungele ukutshata. Akusoloko uzalwe kwintando yothando kunokuthetha isifiso sokuhamba kwikota yobomi kunye. Kodwa ukuba umntu ungumphefumlo onomdla kwaye awufuni ukwahlukana nayo, le nto ingaba sisiseko sokudala intsapho eyomeleleyo neyoyolo.
Ukususela ekudalweni kwintsapho, isi sibini siqala ukufumana amaqondo okuphuhliswa kobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi, uphawu lomtshato. Iinyanga zokuqala zidlula ngokuqonda ngokupheleleyo, ukuvuya kunye nokuzonwabisa. Isigaba sesibini - isifo satiety - sifike kwiminyaka eyi-1-1.5, ibonakaliswe kukunyamalala kwothando. Ukwaneliseka kuya kwinqanaba lokunyaniseka, xa abatshatileyo beqala ukungathandabuzeki ngokuchanekileyo kokukhetha, ukuxabana nokuxabana. Uninzi lwahlukaniso luya kwenzeka ngeli nqanaba.
Isigaba esilandelayo, esibonisa ukushiywa kwintlupheko eyinkimbinkimbi, kukuzaliseka kwetyala. Uthando phakathi kwabatshatiweyo aluvutha ngomlilo oqaqambileyo, kodwa basondele kwaye bazame ukuvuyisa omnye nomnye. Isigaba senkonzo siya kuhlonipha kunye nobuhlobo. Amaqabane ayancoma ngakumbi kwaye ayesaba ukulahlekelwa. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, malunga neminyaka eyi-10-12, isigaba sothando lwamanje siza. Umvuzo kulabo bahloniphekileyo baphumelela kuzo zonke izilwanyana baza balwela uthando lwabo.