Okumangalisa kukuba, imfundo yendoda, nangona kufanele ilale kumahlombe kamama, isoloko ihlala ingumfazi wayo. Emva koko, nguye oza kuzisa kumntu ininzi imimiselo yezoqoqosho, ngaphandle komtshato ongenakukwazi ukuhlala ulungile kwaye unamandla. Emva koko, ubomi bubangelwa imbangela yokuqhawula umtshato.
Indlela yokunyusa indoda yangempela?
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukufunda umgaqo ophambili: ukuba unina unokumemeza ngunyana (oko, nangona kunjalo, akakho umbala wonke), ngoko umyeni wakhe akanalo ilungelo lokuhla kuloo nto. Ngaphambi kokuba kungengomntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, inkunzi engcolileyo, kodwa indoda ekhulile eneempawu kunye nomlinganisi. Yingakho kungakhathaliseki ukuba kufuneka uhambe ngaphaya kokumemeza kunye neentlanzi - yile nto, kwaye ayikho i T-shirt ekhohliweyo, engabangela iingxaki ezinzulu emshadweni.
Isibonda esiphezulu sokulawula indoda yinto yokuzithemba. Ukususela ebuntwaneni wafundiswa ukuba kufuneka abe ngumlimi, onamandla, onesibindi, owenza imibuzo enzulu. Kule nto esiyidingayo ukwakha kumbuzo wendlela yokukhulisa umntu.
Ukongeza, kufuneka ube ngumntu lowo ofuna ukuzama. Ukuba uhamba ekhaya kwisambatho esidala kwaye ugxothe onke amaxesha - akunakwenzeka ukuba umyeni wakho uya kufuna ukwenza okuthile kuwe. Kodwa xa ubuhlobo buhle, kwaye uhle kwaye ulungele kakuhle, umnqweno wokukunceda kuyo nayiphi na into yokwenza umntu ilula.
Ungakulibali ukuba akuzona zonke iimpawu ezinokuthi zitshintshe. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu ngokusungula uluntu, awuyi kumphoqa ukuba abelane nawe yonke into eyenzekayo kuye. Ukuba kungenjalo ukuthandana - ngoko akacingeli ngokukhawuleza akugubungele emva kokubukela i-melodrama kunye (ukuba uyavuma ukuyibona). Unokwenza nje ulungelelanise imikhwa yakhe yendlu, kodwa khumbula ukuba wena uzakufuneka wenze izivumelwano. Akukho namnye kuni unyanzelekile ukuba alungele kwisibini, kwaye ngoko ke, wonk 'ubani uya kufuneka atshintshe, kuba ngaphandle kwayo kuya kufumana nzima ukuhlala kunye.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda aphakanyiswe ngabasetyhini ahluke kwabanye ngaphandle kokuba baphulaphule ngakumbi abafazi babo kwaye bancedise indlu. Awukwazi ukuguqula i-shag ibe yindoda yoshishino, i-slob efanelekileyo, i-donjuan kwindoda yentsapho eyisibonelo, kunye nomnxila kumntu oqhelekileyo, kwaye amaninzi angabonwabileyo abasetyhini abangena kule ndlela bangakuqinisekisa oku. Indoda kufuneka kuqala ukuba yinene - inyaniso, inyanisekileyo, engeyomntu onxilisayo, ingabi yintlanu. Ngaphandle koko kuya kuba nzima kuye - awukwazi ukuyitshintsha.
Imfundo yesetyhini yendoda
Akunabantu ababini abadibeneyo, baqala ukuhlala kunye - kwaye bavele bahambelane kwimikhaya yabo nganye. Imfundo yindoda yangempela, eya kuhambelana nawe, imele ibe yinyameko, ilula kwaye iphumelele.
Umzekelo, uyithumela kwisitoreji, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kuzisa into oyifunayo. Indoda yakho ayiyazi ukuba kutheni ukhetha
Unengxaki ezininzi zeentsapho zixhomekeke kwilungiselelo lezinto. Ukuba umntu wakho uphonsa izinto zakhe ezungeze indlu, kwaye ungakulungele ukuwaqokelela, ungabathatha kwaye uzixhomeke kwi-monitor yekhompyuter okanye iTV-apho baya kuphazamiseka khona ukuze ekugqibeleni aziqonde.
Musa ukulibala malunga neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu: ukuba kungenxa yakhe ngokukhawuleza ukusika isiqwenga sesonka kungekudala, kodwa ngaphaya kwexesha, kulula ukuba uzibuyisele ngokwakho kunokuthetha ngawo yonke imihla. Hamba ulungelelaniso!