Xa uvakalelwa kukuba unomntu onomthandayo, ufuna ukuhlala evuyiswa into ethi: yincoma amahle, unike izipho kwaye wenze izinto ezintle. Ngaloo ndlela, isibonakaliso sokwanda kweemvakalelo sibonakalisiwe, kwaye sinendawo yokutshintsha kuxhomekeke kwisigaba sobudlelwane. Ekuqaleni, isibonakaliso sidlulile kumgangatho oqhelekileyo, kuba kuya kuba yinqwenelo nganye yesibini ukuzonwabisa kunye nokumangaliswa. Emva koko ubukhulu buncipha, kwaye izihlandlo zomntu othandekayo ziza ngezinye izihlandlo. Kodwa umnqweno wokuhlala ujabule awunakunyamalala, njengothando .
Abasetyhini abaninzi bayazibuza indlela yokukholisa umntu oyintanda, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo bayamphendula kumbono womfazi. Kodwa akuyena wonke umntu othanda ibhere elimnandi, umlotha onomphefumlo ochaphazelayo okanye uhlamba olukhuni kunye neepasal rose. Nangona, malunga nokuhlamba, olu khetho luya kuba luyathanda, ukuba luza kuqupha umthandayo.
Kunokukholisa indoda?
Makhe sibone oko kwenza indoda ibe nemihlali:
- Ukutya okumnandi . Ukuba kwakukho umnqweno wokupheka isidlo sokuthanda umntu, kuyimfuneko ukuba acinge ngokuthanda kwakhe. Akayithandi isaladi yokukhanya kunye ne-ice cream ye-ice cream. Kodwa ingulube ibhaka ehovini, ifafazwe ngamacube kunye notywala-iya kuthandwa.
- Ngobusuku obunothando . Kwitheyibhile kufuneka ikhanyise ikhandlela, zimbini iiglasi kunye nebhotile ye-champagne. Intombazana endiyithandayo idibana nendoda egqoke iingubo ezimnandi kunye nezicathulo, ngoko umphumo uya kuba namandla. Ezi zihlwa zi no kulungiswa kumanqanaba okuqala olwalamano. Kodwa emva kwexesha kuyimfuneko ukuzisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo - ukutshintsha i-champagne iwayini, kunye nokugqoka kwantambama kwesoti ye-nurse.
- Izipho . Isipho simele sikhethwe ngokusuka kwintando, iimfuno kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa. Ukuba umntu uyayithanda ibhola, kwaye uyazi ukuba yiliphi iqela ekulo, ungayithenga kalula i-accessory ehambelana nokukhetha kwakhe.
Ndingamkholisa njani umntu embhedeni?
Cinga ngeendlela ezininzi ezikuvumela ukuba ukholise indoda. Kukho ukukholisa indoda esinikwa ngokwesini:
- Gqoka kwiiphini zangaphantsi ezintle . Amadoda afana neentambo, kunye neesitokisini ezinogada. Ewe, ukuba iimpahla zibomnyama kwaye zibomvu. Iintsimbi ezithandwayo zizalisa umzobo ngesondo.
- Musa ukucima ukukhanya . Amadoda afana nokubona konke okwenzekayo. Imifanekiso ebonakalayo ibanika ngakumbi isandi kunye nesicaciso.
- Buza into ayifunayo . Wonke umntu uphelelwe ingcamango encinane, endifuna ukuyiguqulela ngokwenene.
- Hambisa . Indoda ithanda izenzo ezisebenzayo zeqabane lakhe ngexesha lesini .