Nanku kufika umzuzu xa indoda enamazwi: "Ndinezinye iindoda" zatsho umnyango. Kule meko, abaninzi abafazi banemibuzo: "Yintoni enokuyenza ngokulandelayo?". Ngokomgaqo, isicwangciso senkqubo esizayo singaphuhlisa ngokwemizekelo emibini: ukuqala ubomi obuthile obuzimeleyo okanye ukubuyisela iqabane kwintsapho.
Yintoni endiyenzayo xa indoda yam ishiya ikosikazi encinci?
Ukuba awufuni ukumisa kwaye unamandla okuxolela umlingane wakho, ngoko kufuneka uqhubekele kwisenzo esisebenzayo uze usibuyisele kwintsapho . Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi eziza kunceda ukulungisa imeko:
- Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze yaya kwisibuko uze ukhangela ukubonakala kwakho. Umngeni kukuba ngumlingani ongcono. Mhlawumbi kufuneka ubhalise kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, utshintshe iinwele zakho kwaye uhlaziye i-wardrobe yakho.
- Ukuba umyeni uye waya kwinkosikazi yakhe kwaye akayi kubuya, kuyafaneleka ukubonisa ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe ubomi bube bhetele ngakumbi. Ixesha lokubona amaphupha nokwenza izinto ebezingenayo ixesha elithile.
- Kwiintlanganiso kunye nomyeni okanye nabahlobo abaqhelekileyo kubalulekile ukuziphatha ngendlela enokwenzeka ngokusemgangathweni kunye nokunxibelelana ngamanqaku omnene. Akufanele acinge ukuba bayamthiya kwaye bafuna ukumbulala.
- Zama ukuba ngumhlobo wakhe. Nika iingcebiso, uphulaphule iingxaki kwaye uncede kwiimeko ezinzima. Ekugqibeleni, uyaqonda ukuba wenza iphutha elikhulu kwaye ufuna ukubuyela.
Kukholelwa ukuba inkosikazi encinci - yinto yokuzonwabisa yesikhashana, kwaye kamva umyeni ngokwakhe ufuna ukubuyela kwindlu epholileyo kunye nosapho olunothando.
Ungaphila njani ukuba indoda ishiye enye?
Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuba ziqonde imeko kwaye zibuyele kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo zengqondo, kuthatha malunga neentsuku ezisibhozo. Iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokulibala umyeni wakho oya kwelinye:
- Okokuqala, kufuneka ususe yonke into ekunokwenzeka ngenye indlela ikhumbuze umfazi wakho wangaphambili.
- Musa ukuthetha ngabangaphambili kunye nabanye abantu kwaye, nangona kunjalo, uyamthuka, kwaye ngenye indlela uyimgxeka. Isisombululo esona sisisombululo kukuba unqwenele ulonwabo kwaye uhoxise ngokupheleleyo.
- Kubalulekile ukuphosa yonke imvakalelo: insimbi, vula izitya, ngokubanzi, yenza konke okufunayo. Emva koko, ukuphela kobuthaka kuhleli emphefumlweni, kwaye oku kuyisiseko esihle sokwakha ubomi obutsha.