Mhlawumbi, kumntu uya kubonakala engaqhelekanga, kodwa umxholo - kutheni ungeke ukwazi ukumanga umfana emlonyeni, ufanelekile. I-taboo enjalo inokudibaniswa ngezizathu ezahlukileyo, kwaye kukho abantu abakholelwa ukuba oku kuyingozi.
Kutheni ungeke uwanga umntwana?
Amantombazana amaninzi afuna impendulo yombuzo onjalo, ukuba abe nesizathu sokhetho lwabo, oluya kuphelisa imeko ehlazo ngenxa yokungabikho koqhagamshelwano olufutshane. Ukuvinjelwa kokumanga kunokunxulumana nomsebenzi osandul 'ukunyusa umlomo okanye ubukho besifo esithile. Isizathu esivamile kunye nesizathu sokungabi namacala ngenxa yobungqele, ke xelela iqabane lakho ukuba akufanele uwanga, ngokuba ugula, kwaye akayi kuzama ukufumana isizathu sangempela senzekile.
Kutheni ungeke ukhange emlonyeni:
- Isizathu esingaba kukuba ulwalamano oluphakathi kwabantu luqala nje kwaye intombazana ayilungele ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo.
- Abantu abaninzi banqabile ukuwanga zabo iinkolo.
- Inani elikhulu lamantombazana linyanzeliswe kakhulu, kwaye oku kubangela ukuba bayesaba ukumanga. Ngokukodwa oku kusebenza kummandla onjalo kwiindawo zoluntu.
- Awukwazi ukumanga emlonyeni phambi kobushushu, kuba ngexesha loqhagamshelwano nabantu banokutshintshisa inani elikhulu lezinto ezincinci. Ubusiso buya kudlula eso sifo njenge- herpes .
- Abanye abaneengqondo kunye nabantu ababandakanyekayo kwizenzululwazi abangaboniyo, bayixhomekeke kukuba into enjalo iholele ekulahlekelweni kwamandla kwaye ayithwali nto enhle ngokwayo.
- Musa ukumbanga xa kukho ivumba elimnandi emlonyeni. Oku kungakho ngenxa yokuba umntu akakwazi ukugubungela amazinyo akhe okanye adle umkhiqizo othile ngesinambithe esinamandla, umzekelo, igalikhi.
- Emva kokutyelela udokotela wamazinyo kunye
iinkqubo ezithile, kunokwenzeka, ukuvinjelwa kokumanga. - Awukwazi ukunqabana, ukuba kukho na ukulimala emlonyeni, umzekelo, ukusika. Apha ungaphinda udibanise zonke iintlobo zomonakalo kolwimi, umzekelo, ukutshiswa kokutya okutshisayo.
- Ukongezelela ekwenzeni umsebenzi wokwandisa umlomo, okhankanywe ngaphambili, kuyafaneleka ukukhankanya isizathu esinzima njengendlela ehambelana ne-botox kunye nokubhala tattoo.
Kukho nemibuzo malunga nokuba kutheni umntu angafanele amanga amehlo avulekileyo. Enyanisweni, loo miqathango ikhona kwaye yonke into idibene kuphela nesimo sengqondo. Ukuvala amehlo omntu, izibhengezo ezivela kwizinto zangaphandle kwaye uzonwabela nje inkqubo.