Ngokuqhelekileyo ulwalamano lwentsapho kukho imeko xa umyeni emthuka umfazi wakhe. Kutheni umyeni ehlambalaza kwaye ehlazisa umfazi wakhe - ingqondo , njengesazinzululwazi, ayikwazi ukuphendula impendulo kulo mbuzo. Nantsi yonke into ixhomekeka kwiimeko ezithile kunye nokuba yintoni ubudlelwane bamaqabane ekuqaleni kobomi bentsapho.
Indoda iyabiza kwaye ihlazisa - iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo
Ngaphambi kokusebenzisa iingcebiso ezithile, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kutheni indoda ihlambalaza ihlazisa umfazi wayo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zeli ganeko. Ukuqhubeka - ezinye zazo.
- Umyeni uvakalelwa kukuba umntu uqala ukuphazamisa inkululeko yakhe kunye nendawo. Indlela yokuphendula ngokuhlambalaza kwendoda-isiluleko sengqondo sengqondo kule meko sincitshiswa ukuba siyeke ukuqeqesha umntu kwaye simnike inkululeko enkulu. Ukuloba, i-kebabs kunye nokuphumla kunye nabahlobo, oku kungento engekho mntu ongayenza ngaphandle.
- Esinye isizathu esiqhelekileyo sokuhlambalaza kukungabi ncamnye ukungafuneki komntu ukutshata. Ngokuqhelekileyo le nto ibonakaliswa kwizibini ezitshatileyo apho abatshatileyo bangene emanyanisweni yokuqala, engaxilongo. Emva kwexesha elithile, intsimi yomtshato, umyeni unokufumanisa ukuba akayilungele ubunzima obunxulumene nobomi bomtshato, okanye nakubantu bonke-ukuqonda ukuba akayithandi lowo wadibanisa nobomi bakhe.
- Kwindawo yesithathu kwintlu yezona zinto ezibangela ukunyelisa, umona uhlala ngokuziqhenya. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu uqala ukukhwele umfazi wakhe, akalungele ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo. Ngenxa yoko, zonke zixhala, kodwa ukungathandabuzeki kunye nezikhalazo ziyaqhubeka zihlushwa ngumlingane. Ngenxa yoko, uqala ukuhlazisa nokunyelisa umfazi wakhe.
- Esinye isizathu sokuba indoda ihlambalaze kwaye ihlazise ukwamkelwa kwayo kwesi simo sengqondo kubantu besetyhini ngokubanzi.
Mhlawumbi yile ndlela uyise wayethatha ngayo unina. Ngenxa yoko, indoda evela ebuntwaneni ibona ukuba ukuziphatha okunjalo kuyinto evamile. Ngendlela, ukuba indoda ihlambalaza umfazi ngenxa yesi sizathu - kungcono ukuba ucinge ngokukhawuleza ngokuqhawula umtshato.
Kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko, kufuneka ubeke ngokuzithoba uze ubeke ingxoxo kwinkohlakalo. Ngokwenza njalo, khumbula ukuba amanye amadoda angaqonda ukuba uzame ukuthetha, njengendlela yokuwasebenzisa. Ngoko ke, kukulungele ukuqinisekisa ukuba le ndoda yagqiba ukuba nguye, kungekhona wena, owaqalisa le ngxoxo.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ingquzulwano isenokusombulula ngoxolo. Ukuba akunjalo, khumbula ukuba awuyi kunyanzelwa ngamandla.