Njengoko bethetha, "awukwazi ukuyalela intliziyo yakho" ngezinye izihlandlo zivela kumntu otshatileyo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo abantu ababini balwa emphefumlweni: omnye ulungele nantoni na, ukuba uzuze into leyo, kwaye isibini isondeza isaga esaziwayo ukuba awukwazi ukwakha injabulo kwintlungu yomntu. Ukuba bekugqitywe ukuba kwenziwe kwisicwangciso sokuqala, ngoko kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuphumelela intliziyo yomntu otshatileyo. Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi ezinokukunceda ukuba usondele kwiinjongo . Ukwandisa amathuba okuphumelela ukuba ulwalamano nomfazi we "lixhoba" alifaki.
Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba ukwazi ukuphumelela umntu otshatileyo?
Kukulungele ukuqala ngolwazi lweengcaphephe, oluya kukuvumela ukuba uhlakulele iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokwenza. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni kanye kwaye uyayiphikisa loo ndoda, kwaye yintoni engafanelekanga kumfazi wayo.
Indlela yokuphumelela indoda esatshatileyo:
- Abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo bayabethwa ngabantu abafazi, ezivela kwisihlwele. Akukho ukunyamezela nokunyamezela, indoda iya kutsalwa kunzima kunesipho sesihle.
- Yiba nomsondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubudlelwane beentsapho, ulwalamano luya kuvela kwimvelaphi kwaye kaninzi ludlala. Pamper wakho okhethiweyo ngesidlo sothando okanye isipho sokuqala, kodwa ungayidluli.
- Makhe ndiyiqonde loo mntu ukuba nguye oyintloko kunye noqine, kaninzi ukubonisa ubuthathaka bakho, ucele uncedo.
- Ukuthetha ngendlela yokuphumelela indoda esatshatileyo, kukufanelekile ukunika isiluleko esisodwa esibalulekileyo-sikwazi ukuphulaphula umntu okhethiweyo, simxhasa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Kufanelekile ukuqala ukuba ngumhlobo omhle kuye, othembela kuye.
- Musa ukufuna into nanye, ungacinezeli uze ungenzi i-scandals. Konke oku sele esayifumana kwintsapho, ngoko kufuneka unike indoda inkululeko kunye nenkululeko.
- Elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo - amadoda anesondo esomeleleyo, xa adunyiswa kwaye ayanconywa , ngoko awukwazi ukuyisebenzisa. Zama nanoma iliphi ithuba lokubona iimpumelelo zakhe.