Amanye amantombazana ayinyananga ukuba umntu angaphila njani kwindlu encinci kwaye anelisekile ngokuya eeholide kwiindawo zokuhlala zasekhaya. Baphupha ngeentengiso ezinkulu kwiYurophu, ukuphumla kwiindawo zokuhlala ezintle kwihlabathi kunye nezinye izivulo zobomi, kungabinyanzeliswa yindlela yabasetyhini. Kodwa njani ukuphumeza oku? Yibhinqa elikhutheleyo kwaye uneminyaka engama-30 ngokuqhelekileyo ukulibala malunga neyakho yobhinqa besini? Hayi, le ndlela ayifanelekiyo wonke umntu, kunzima kakhulu ukukhangela umntu osisityebi, umxhasi, kunye neendleko zakhe ezenza iparadesi. Kodwa yintoni kwaye intombazana ingayifumana njani i-sponsor ephathekayo, kuba kuyacaca ukuba loo ndoda endleleni ayilalanga.
Unokufumana njani umxhasi nge-intanethi?
Indlela elula yokufumana indoda yomxhasi kukuzalisa i-questionnaire kwenye (okanye ngaphezulu, ezininzi) kwiindawo ezizodwa. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba oku akunjalo - amadoda amaninzi angathanda ukuba nomdla onobudala obunomdla, asinalo ixesha elaneleyo lokuya kwiiklabhu nakwiindawo zokudlela - ixesha elide kakhulu elishishino. Yintoni enokunikela ngayo umxhasi onokuxhaswa kunye nendlela yokuqokelela i-questionnaire engayenza umdla kumntu?
- Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuthatha iifoto. Unokwenza iifoto zobungcali okanye ukhethe owona mnye ufumanekileyo. Umgaqo oyintloko - akukho mvelaphi engaqhelekanga okanye imvelaphi ye-shabby (umzobo, ifenitshala endala, njl.). Kuya kuba kuhle ukuthatha imifanekiso ngeholide kwindalo okanye kwelinye iqela.
- Xa isicatshulwa sikhethiweyo, kukufanele ukucinga malunga noko u kubhala malunga nawe. Akukho mfuneko yokuzibamba, kulula kakhulu ukuhamba kunye neqela elincinane, mhlawumbi neelwimi eziziintetho.
- Ukuqwalasela iimfuno, kubalulekile ukukhomba abo malunga nento enenayo ingcamango. Kodwa musa ukuzibandakanya, awufumani umsebenzi.
- Ngethuba lokukhetha izinto zesondo kunye nobuchule becala ngokusasaza akuyimfuneko. Ngokuthumela i-questionnaire kwisayithi, uyavuma ukuba uvumelane nobudlelwane bombhede nomxhasi, kodwa kungcono ukuthetha malunga naloo nto kumntu okanye ngeposi.
- Ngendlela, malunga neenkcukacha, kufuneka ukuba - ungaqhubi ukuya kwintlanganiso emva komqondiso wokuqala. Ekugqibeleni, ukhangele umxhasi-mthandi, kwaye akusiyo umqeshwa wenkalo yeenkonzo ezincinci, ngoko ke ngokokuqala umnxeba ukuqhuba awufuneki naphi na.
Ndingayifumana njani enye i-sponsor?
I-Intanethi yiyona nto ingumgaqo-bhajethi omkhulu wokukhangela. Ngokwemvelo, kufuneka uchithe ngokubonakala kwakho - izalamane ezizityebi zizifuna iimantombazana "ngomhlobiso", ngokuqhelekileyo ukubonakalisa imbonakalo (imodeli, unokwenza ntoni ngawo). Kodwa konke okuya kuyidinga ukuthandana kwikhompyutha, kunenzuzo ukuzifaka kwifayile yokuqala. Kwiimeko zokuthandana ngobomi bokwenene, kuya kufuneka uchithe imali eninzi. Okokuqala ngenxa yeendawo eziza kuhanjelwa kuzo. Ewe, phi iindoda ezizityebi zihlala? Ngokucacileyo kungekho kwimarike okanye kwi-cafe eshibhile. Ngoko kufuneka wenze indlela yakho yokutyela, ii-nightclubs (kunye, namaqela abucala kwi-VIPs),
Khangela umxhasi, into enhle, kodwa akufanele uyilibale ngokulumkisa. Okokuqala, kukho uluhlu lwabantu abangenazo izigidi emva kwemiphefumlo yabo, kodwa ngubani onokuzenza njengobulumko ngokuhlwa ngenxa yothando lomnye. Okwesibini, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukukhangela umxhasi, kufuneka uphinde ucinge malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini kubomi bakho nokuba kutheni ufuna. "Ukuphumelela" ebomini obuhle, kuya kuba nzima ukubuyela itiye kwiingxowa, ngoko kuya kufuneka ufezekise zonke izinto zakhe, okanye uchithe imali kungekuphela kokonwaba kwakho, kodwa uzama ukuqinisekisa ikusasa labo. Emva kwakho konke, ubuhle nobutsha zizinto ezilahlekayo, kwaye de kube umhla ungapheli mntu kufuneka enze okuninzi.